Will a guy use a woman he personally know for affection and intimacy even though he doesn't really want her and is in love with another woman?

[Anonymous]

He doesn't like me and he knows I don't want to be with him. He also told me many times he doesn't want to be with me but he tries to makeout with me a lot and ask for pics etc.

[InknKink]

Yes, a guy will do that. Men are made to want as many sexual opportunities as functionally possible. We make billions of little soldiers every month.

We often don't even need to be particularly attracted to said person to pursue them. Most men will sleep with women they consider to be well below their own value.

This often confuses women who tend to think that because a man is willing to sleep with them that he would be willing to commit to her, but rarely is that the case.

Men often pursue women simultaneously.

[OneViewpoint]

Do women keep a pool of "Nice Guys" around for validation and a backup in case Chad and Tyrone dump them?

Yeah, men do that too. It's not a gender thing. It's a human thing. Get better at finding quality humans. Get better at getting rid of the ones who don't matter.

[leahzrc]

Yes they will use you for sex and lie and say they love you

[avery58]

I think it's easy for many of them to do that

[spartan55]

This should not be news to someone your age...😂 😂

[Anonymous]

Yes. He is using you to satisfy his sexual desires.

[Anonymous]

Will the guys YOU choose that? Yes. Will all guys do that? Certainly not. Hopes that helps you understand better.😆

[jahaims]

Yeah, broken people do that