Why would a guy ask me out?

[ilikemangos]

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10 mo

The guy is a attractive guy from my grade and always tries to talk to me but im too awkward to carry it on. why would he do that?

[Alex-Snow]

He most likely likes you? What did he sk you out on... a movie, a walk etc? Is it ok with ur parents to start dating? It is normal and ok to be nervous and shy about starting dating. It seems like it was yesterday for me. The boy was probably nervous as all when asking you out. Stay friends with him even on socials, be friendly and casually mention that a dte does sound like fun. Ur thoughts?

[ilikemangos]

no he does not lol. he asked to go to the movies on Friday. yeah its ok i js dont want to. it wasn't serious, after he asked he walked back to his friends who were laughing. i wouldn't have fun with a guy

[Alex-Snow]

Well there will be another guy who you like that you can go on dates with. Hang in there!

[ilikemangos]

yeah no

[In_Trance]

For the same reason you will eventually ask a guy out

[ilikemangos]

i would never do that

[Nikki1989]

Your at that age where it starts. Everyone I knew in school was dating when I was 14.

[ilikemangos]

no he’s def messing with me. he's a 9/10 while im a 3/10 on a good day. i just wanna know what he wants.

[Nikki1989]

Ratings are meaningless. You might be a 10 to some people.

[ilikemangos]

yeah no, im fat, short and ginger. nobody thinks im a 10.

[Twalli]

Outside of being fat I like short girls and gingers. So, of the 3 things you mentioned you're 67% my type. As for being fat, it's not that hard to get to a healthy weight, especially during puberty.

[ilikemangos]

yeah no u dont. bffr.

[Twalli]

I do. I'm also short, so having a girl who is my height or shorter is hot to me. I've found a higher percentage of redheads hot than girls of any other hair color. If I had to rank it, I would probably rank it: red, blonde, black, brown.

[ilikemangos]

r u like 5’3?
by the way that guy is pretty tall, and there's shorter girls. the redhead part is js not true. total bs, no one would ever say that.

[Twalli]

5'4". Short. As for redheads, it's true. I can't force you to believe that, but it's the way I see it.

[ilikemangos]

ok. nobody under the age of 30 has ever said that, y'all r trying to make others feel better its obvious

[es20490446e]

Why would a hungry person go to a restaurant?

[ilikemangos]

i dont know🤷‍♀️

[es20490446e]

When you are interested in someone it's not necessary to be explicit about it.

Just keep interacting with he, nicely, and try to get together to do the simplest plan.

[ilikemangos]

no he's messing with me

[es20490446e]

What do you mean with messing?

[ilikemangos]

what do u not understand

[es20490446e]

If he's messing, there is a reason.

[dudeinohio]

because they like you?

[ilikemangos]

but why?

[dudeinohio]

Maybe they think you are pretty. Maybe they think you have a nice personality.

[ilikemangos]

i have neither?

[dudeinohio]

I don't know then.

[Twalli]

He likes you

[ilikemangos]

he is a 9/10 and im a 3/10 on a good day, he's messing with me for sure

[Twalli]

I assure you that he doesn't see you as a 3/10. You are your harshest critic. There are also a lot of things about you that you probably don't like that he does.

[ilikemangos]

everybody does. if i get called ugly everyday by at least one person a day, he does.