II don't understand why men are so attracted to Asians?

[Anonymous]

I just don't get it. yes there's some pretty ones, but men act like they are better than any other race which I don't think is true, I've seen beautiful of other races as well. I've been seeing Asian women white men more often and I just don't get it. there is so many and for the most part they all have the same look to me. it's kinda annoying how white men are so crazy about them

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'll try to answer your question in a simple manner. Effeminacy, intelligence, and less likely to get fat.

Compare that to the others in a sort of Venn diagram in your head. Also try to put your mind into the mind of a male trying to have a family over just fucking. Some of those factors matter much more than just her looks. Don't want to get cheated on? Don't want to get hen pecked to death for some random bullshit? Don't want to get cheated on? Don't want to end up with a fat man looking dumb bitch screaming in your face like she's a man?

I'm not saying that's reality in every case, but if you were just a young male and you're looking over the landscape of women and your interest is more than just fucking for a few times and then banging the next one. You want a long term rest of your life sort of deal. Which would be the best choice in your mind if you were that young man? A ghetto black chick? Some white soon to be Karen infamous for cheating on a girls night out? Perhaps a spit fire jealous Latina chick that is definitely going to weigh more than you in five years? I'm not saying they're like that... but if you were judging the world of women by stereotypes... What do you want? Keep in mind you're not a bang everything that moves man... you just want a life long partner. What would you choose?

[Asker]

how does any of that mean only Asians can be mother's, not chest , not materialistic, not be fat? I'm pretty sure I've seen every race be mother's , I'm white I have never entertained the idea of cheating on my partner in my life. that has nothing to do with race it's morals. look at all the Asian porn and prostitution by the way, so that makes no sense anyway. I've also seen Asian women have one of the worst temper tantrums so I don't know. not every race of women is terrible other than Asian it's such B's.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I should've mentioned the ability to understand things, but I guess I thought that was covered by intelligence. I mentioned not all... I also mentioned not in reality... I guess that doesn't matter. I was trying to get you to see a perspective one could have.

But go ahead and bitch at me and chew me out... you're why I went with the Asian persuasion okay. Pretty simple right?

[itsannalee]

@D_Bone_Streak Actually what she does and her arguments just proves what you said about why do some men prefer Asian 😂

[D_Bone_Steak]

@itsannalee Most of these people online complaining about "Where have all the good men gone" 1) Wouldn't date a good man, and/or 2) Are the reason a good man doesn't want to be with her. Same goes for these types...

She's probably noticed that a lot of guys around her would rather be with an Asian girl, is getting all jelly and bent out of shape about it while her main character complex doesn't allow her to see all the probable reasons. Solipsism at it's best.

[InknKink]

I personally am not a big fan of Asian women.

I find them more often than not very plain/vanilla. I don't like the stereotypical nasal/whinny voices. And from a purely physical standpoint, I don't see the appeal of their bust/waist/hip ratios; nor their rounded facial features.

But like you said, yes, there are some pretty ones.

Not to mention, my one and only experience dating an Asian woman, a Vietnamese girl, was a fairly strong negative experience. She wasn't a very good person; entitlement issues.

[itsannalee]

That’s actually just personal preference, but also most of us tend to appear younger than our age, youthful-looking.
And also cultural stereotypes, media and pop culture have reinforced ideas about Asian women being polite, obedient, or family-oriented (sometimes exaggerated or inaccurate). Submissive or traditional, which some men are drawn to because it aligns with certain relationship fantasies.

[Genie23]

Everyone have a preference. Some like them because they age slowly, while others like them because generally Asian women were raised with traditional values so some men like that. They want someone to cook for them or take care of home duties. Most Asian women are also soft spoken. Most men want their partner to show them respect, not abuse or shout at them just because they're annoyed.

[Anonymous]

There are two primary reasons. And while these are generalizations, they are generally true.

Asian women tend to be more feminine in appearance, character and values.

Speaking of values, Asian women, including those raised in the US, tend to grow up in a more conservative and traditional culture, which makes them better women and better human beings. Look at the rate of unwed pregnancies and divorce rates among Asians compared to others as examples of why men looking for marriage prefer Asian women over others. They are simply better and safer. To be frank, American men are fed up with American women raised in typical American culture.

[Asker]

I still don't understand they're nothing special to me.

[Opinion Owner]

How you feel about Asian women is obviously irrelevant in this question. You can see that, right? You asked why MEN prefer Asian women and I told you why. How you as a woman feel about Asian women has zero relevance in that.

[Vevv123]

I don’t see why other peoples’ preferences is annoying, let them like what they like. Everyone is beautiful. Sometimes it can be a fetish though, which in that case then it’s because some men are lustful, but a lustful man will find anyone attractive.

[Pohjolan]

Its contextual. Some don't prefer Asian women per se but women who take care of themselves and who are nice to them.

Some have had positive experiences with Asian women in the past and associate other Asian women with them.

Some buy into stereotypes, etc.

Though most men are just as fine with a goog looking white woman who isn't a bitch.

[Jackblue]

Some white guys imagine an Asian wife would behave like their slave. In my experience having been in the Far East while Asians of both genders often like to put a smile on things, Asian women aren't especially submissive.

[DryGermanGuy]

If you like dark-haired and dark-eyed women who are slender, they have a great selection. 🙂👍

[guesswhereivebeen]

If you ever had a taste of that sideways pussy you’d know… plus they age amazingly… you’ll see a milf Asian and you think she’s like late 40s maybe… no she’s 130

[jahaims]

Latina and Asian females are more feminine on average

[OneViewpoint]

What an odd thing to get upset about.

[spartan55]

Looks like someone was dumped for an Asian girl...

[MasterKS]

Its about the look not where she is from.

[Danny_dan92]

Everyone has a type