Why do males do this?

[Anonymous]

They don't ask for c0nsent before s3x or hurting a woman during s3x, but some of them ask for c0nsent before kissing?

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Really annoyed that I had to censor the c word

[Anonymous]

To me it’s weird asking for consent. Yes I’m not saying I’m overpowering her or raping her. But when I was growing up it just came natural. You could feel the vibe, the closeness, the emotions. So you knew when it was ok to make a move or not. To me asking if I can kiss a girl seems weird, it’s not spontaneous, it’s not romantic, it doesn’t bring the butterflies like it used to. But a lot of today’s generation seems to think everything is wrong.

[Asker]

No one is telling you to ask for consent before kissing.
Having sex without consent IS rape. And choking without consent is violence. You males won't admit that you violated a woman, you just say "All women LOVE being assaulted and getting brain damage from choking!1!1!"
Males don't bring butterflies to anyone. It's not like women enjoy being around males or males enjoy being around women. You sound delusional

[Asker]

Also, all males are the same regardless of generation

[Opinion Owner]

You need help. Seriously something wrong w you. Not all men are the same. Even back then I didn’t need to ask to have sex because you both knew when it was right or wrong. If she did t want to progress she would stop. Am I saying every man would stop too? No. But I think a majority of people are good, including men. Just cause you had bad experiences doesn’t mean everyone is like that. If that was true I’d say all women were mental like you. But they’re not.

[Asker]

Males admit what they are like:
"All men will commit rape if they think they will get away with it"

"We need government-issued girlfriends"

"Men are simple creatures who only want food and sex"

"Men are biologically wired to cheat" (Implying that males have no self-control)

"Men fib to get women to sleep with them, it's in our genes"

"We have sex with and injure women without consent because we don't like taking no for an answer"

[Asker]

I am a VIRGIN for fuck's sake.

[Asker]

I refuse to lose my virginity because I don't want to be lied to, get brain damage from choking*, get assaulted in my sleep, and get cheated on.
* "Mental health risks of sexual choking. Being frequently choked by your sexual partner may cause mental health issues such as depression, mood disorders, and problems with mental skills, research shows. The highest risk was found in women choked more than five times in the past month. They were more likely to feel sad, lonely, anxious, and depressed, compared to women without a history of being choked as part of sex."

[Asker]

Show me a woman saying that "All women will commit rape if they think they can get away with it".
Women don't say this, and if some did, other women would be furious.
You males DO claim that all women are mental because some of us don't sell our bodies and souls.

[Opinion Owner]

Get help, you need it.

[Asker]

"If you don't want brain damage, you need help" is an utterly male take.

[Opinion Owner]

lol ok

[Anonymous]

I don't do that, I never had sex, nor a kiss.

[Asker]

Either you're lying, or have somehow never had the chance to get away with assault.

[Opinion Owner]

Nope, it's the truth.
I'm very shy and introverted, that's why I like dominant girls, who like to take initiative.
I'm saving my virginity, and my first kiss, for a special girl.

[Asker]

Cap. You males call women who approach males "easy"
Males themselves admit that all males will commit assault if they think they will get away with it. Hence berethor's comment

[Opinion Owner]

Not true, I call them self-confident.
I would never do that, and I don't agree with Berethor.
Girls who would dominate me are the ones who turn me on, I'm not into submissive girls.

[Asker]

Why would berethor say it's all males, then? Why do males disagree with women who quote men, but not the men who say it?
If a woman claims that all women are the same, other women are gonna shut it down

[Opinion Owner]

Because he is a patriarchist, his opinion is just a generalization.
I said I disagree with him.

Personally, I despise patriarchy, because patriarchy is the main reason why I can't get a girlfriend.
Patriarchy teaches women to be passive/submissive, and weak, I don't like that.
Girls like that never take initiative.
If there was no patriarchal society, there would be much more dominant women, and I would have a chance to find the ideal girl for me.

[Asker]

Males say that "Men are simple creatures who only want food and sex" if that's true, why are you shy? No shame in it, I'm just genuinely confused

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not like that, I want a serious love relationship.
I can cook, and if I had a girlfriend, I would be able to make lunch for her.
I guess my shyness is genetic, since I was born, I was always a shy kid.

[Asker]

What is "serious love" to a male? Y'all dont seem to be serious about anything. And if not all men are simple, why do men say that all men are simple?

[Opinion Owner]

It means a committed relationship. I'm 100% serious.
As I said, that's just a generalization made up by ignorant men. I'm definitely not simple.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Girl, you don’t have to censor yourself. You can spell out consent and sex and rape and all that if you really want to. This isn’t tiktok

[Asker]

I have to censor myself because my level is too low. Otherwise, it won't let me post.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Then maybe don’t ask anonymously. You don’t get any points when you go anonymous

[Asker]

Ok thanks. I only started using this site the other day

[Saxvaxxx]

You could ask God or universe for a boyfriend by manifesting or scripting. Or go gay.

[Asker]

? Males literally violate LIZARDS. Look it up. Any woman or girl could get laid if she wanted to. I am a virgin because I hate males. Most importantly I don't want brain damage from choking.

[slatyb]

No idea. I always had consent but never had to explicitly ask for it. Women always let me know what they wanted.

[Asker]

If that was true you wouldn't whine about women being scared when you injure them.

[slatyb]

I have never. I'm didn't post the question. I've never verbally asked for consent because I am patient and have no expectations except civil behavior. In my experience, when a woman wants to be kissed she gets physically close so that it's easy to kiss her. If she wants more, then she invites me into her bed, or invites herself into mine.

[Asker]

"I have no expectations except civil behavior" -Person who thinks that injuring someone without asking is a-ok

[slatyb]

There are other ways of communicating besides explicit speech. All those relationships continued for some time -- none of my dates ever felt coerced. Perhaps you are incapable of understanding or giving non-verbal cues, or perhaps you are just virtue signaling.

[Asker]

This is what i hate about males. They justify violence by saying that sex is a "non-verbal cue" that a woman wants you to hurt her.
And then you whine that women don't communicate. We do, but you don't listen.

[slatyb]

Who's whining? Not me. What violence are you talking about?

[Asker]

Males seriously think that nonconsensual choking isn't violence, and they wonder why women are opting out of relationships

[slatyb]

I've heard of this. It's beyond disgusting. It's also quite dangerous.

[Asker]

Yeah, and you all do it.

[slatyb]

Have a nice life

[jahaims]

People who act like that are bad people who do not respect others.

[Asker]

... So, men?

[Asker]

I'm a virgin, I just know what males are like because they admit it.

[jahaims]

Females sa males too. You are simple minded

[Asker]

Males literally say "Men are simple creatures who only want food and sex"
Not all women SA males, but males admit "All men will commit r_ape if they think they can get away with it"
Again, I know what males are like because they admit it

[jahaims]

You're a simpleton

[Asker]

... Males constantly brag about being simple. I think "males are simple" might actually be an understatement.

[Berethor]

Men don't like no for an answer so it make sense, as women like kissed but don't like sex.

[Asker]

Women don't like no for an answer which is why we baby trap males.
But on a serious note, reading "I have to commit assault because the thought of a woman enjoying s3x is alien to me and I need to get off" is why I hate males

[Asker]

Also, the other guys I've talked to used "But women like being r_aped and strangled" as an excuse. Y'all need to pick one.

[Asker]

Women don't like being assaulted, which is why there's a male "loneliness" (it's really just h0rniness) epidemic.

[Asker]

This is why I refuse to lose my virginity.
The lioness does not concern herself with the "male loneliness epidemic"

[Berethor]

You being a virgin just makes you more attractive to many men, you not a leftover.

[Asker]

I'm not better than promiscuous women, I just refuse to lose my virginity because I know that all males are like you.
You need to understand that virgins like me hate males the most. That's why we're virgins. We DO get horny but we have other priorities.

[Jhon_Cobretti]

Jeez Fren!

[Asker]

@Jhon_Cobretti
-Male admits to assault and battery
-Woman exists
-The woman is the bad guy
Male logic :(

[Jhon_Cobretti]

@Asker Who said you are the bad 'guy'? You're getting tensed. Relax, this is the internet.

[Asker]

@Jhon_Cobretti So what? It affects real life. My stepdad assaulted my stepsister when she was like 7.
And males want me to take "accountability" for some shit another woman said on tiktok. I've never even had tiktok. Double standards.

[Asker]

@Jhon_Cobretti kmg9150 flat out said I'm dangerous and refused to explain.

[Berethor]

@Asker so you say that you get horny? and I was thinking that you typical asexual woman.

[Asker]

The vast majority of women get horny. Your excuse for r4pe is pathetic and you should be locked up.
I'm a virgin because unlike males, I have self-control

[Asker]

Oh, you're from israel. Maybe that's why. You did admit that all males are violent though

[TonyMetal___86]

If they are married, no need for a consent but other than that, it's how the couple compromise each other!

[Asker]

Enjoy your male "loneliness" epidemic, since your "compromise" is just bringing money or nothing to the table while assaulting and battering women.
You did this to yourselves.

[TonyMetal___86]

In a marriage there is no such thing as a consent plus i don't assault a woman unless she assault me!

Don't worry about my loneliness, i'm managing it, worry about yourself with mentality that you have

[Asker]

"In a marriage there is no such thing as consent" is why no one should ever trust males. Especially because males will treat unconscious strangers and their daughter the same way they treat their wives.

[Asker]

If you males can manage your "loneliness" (horniness) then stop assaulting and battering women wtaf is wrong with you

[TonyMetal___86]

You're a crazy feminist, you just wanna attack me, my convo with you is over!

[Asker]

I'm not a feminist, retard.
"You wanna attack me for being wrong !1!1!" <- least anti-truth male

[dudeinohio]

I ask for none of these and let things progress naturally. That's how my generation worked.

[Asker]

All males are the same, and I have no desire to be like your generation.
"I assault and batter women naturally" like ok this is why I wish it was possible to lock all males up

[dudeinohio]

Uh no. There is no assault. Obviously, if the woman was opposed to anything, she'd stop me.

[Asker]

... Do I have to explain that males are stronger than women?
Yes, having sex without consent is assault. Strangling without consent is violence.
You males claim that women can assault you, even though we can't overpower you. But if a male overpowers a woman, it's NOT assault? The double standard is horrific.

[dudeinohio]

You seem like a liberal Squid. You'd be a hit on Reddit... Sooner or later guys will. have to have consent to breathe around women.

You don't get it and honestly am not going to waste anymore of my time arguing.

[Asker]

"You think I need consent to have s3x with and injure women? You can't do anything around here"
This is why males shouldn't have rights. Males do not hold themselves accountable

[dudeinohio]

Seems you have a severe behavioral disorder. Seek out psychological help.

[Asker]

Males will hand out armchair diagnoses before taking accountability.

[Jhon_Cobretti]

Where do YOU draw the line about consent? One extreme has a rapist and the other extreme has a dude that keeps asking consent even for a kiss.

[Asker]

Males all have s3x and injure women without consent, but some males ask for consent before kissing. This is my whole point, the contradiction is insane.
There's a male HERE. berethor, admitting it.
I'm a virgin because I'm not going to tolerate this evil behavior. It's absolutely backwards. You don't need consent to kiss someone who you know is into you, but you DO need consent to have sex or injure a woman. I can't believe I have to spell this out. It's like trying to reason with a kindergartener, but the kindergartener has a bomb

[Jhon_Cobretti]

"But you DO need consent to... injure a woman"?

[Asker]

Yes? Choking causes brain injury, so you need consent to do that.
Stuff like hitting too

[Asker]

Males act like the concept of consent is alien. It's depressing

[Jhon_Cobretti]

Rape victim?

[Jhon_Cobretti]

Ok there's 4 billion males. Don't cling to muh men bad.

[Asker]

I'm a virgin. I'm just listening to what males say.
Look at berethor's comment. The very reason why I shun males is because you lack morals. I have to protect myself

[Asker]

Okay? How many there are has nothing to do with anything. Look at berethor's comment, he admits that y'all are like that

[Asker]

It's not like I was born knowing what males are like. I'm lucky as fuck I learned the easy way

[Jhon_Cobretti]

Okay. Keep protecting yourself.

[Asker]

I assure you I will, and you will keep whining about how evil I am for not selling my body and soul.
"Male 'loneliness' epidemic"
You males are literally bitter about the phrase "We don't owe you s3x". The mindset of a r4pist

[Jhon_Cobretti]

I just asked you to keep protecting yourself. Calm down.

[Asker]

I don't know if you're joking or not, but no matter what you tell me, you're going to whine to other males about how evil I am for refusing to "put out"
That's why males panic about "loneliness" and birth rates... it's all about controlling women. The least you could do is be honest and admit that males are motivated by hunger, h0rniness, and hatred of women

[seeyounexttuesday]

what an odd strawman you created.

[Asker]

Berethor admitted it. It's on this thread.
I'm a virgin, I just know that males are evil because they admit it.

[seeyounexttuesday]

So you used a fake account to justify the opinion on this fake account?

[Asker]

No wtf? Males will do anything but take accountability. You're literally just making shit up, a classic male move.

[Asker]

Do you think Japan's regime was me on an alt? It's just how evil males are

[seeyounexttuesday]

take your meds

[Asker]

I am not mentally ill.
You think that believing the things males admit about themselves is a mental illness?

[seeyounexttuesday]

I think you're mentally ill.

[Asker]

We got psychologist c\/nt over here!
Female supremacy is what you get when you listen to men's confessions:

"All men will commit rape if they think they will get away with it"
"We need government-issued girlfriends"
"Men are simple creatures who only want food and sex"
"Men are biologically wired to cheat" (Implying that males have no self-control)

[Asker]

I was a feminist until, like, the last month. That's when I started listening to males and became a misandrist.

[seeyounexttuesday]

So you've always been a whack job. Got it.

[Asker]

"Accountability-pilled" males when you want to hold violent r4pists accountable: SO YOuVe ALWAyS bEEN HuRTInG My FEEwINgS?1?1?
Enjoy your male "loneliness" epidemic. You did this to yourself.

[seeyounexttuesday]

maybe a valium and a vibrator will calm you down a bit.

[Asker]

A detachable shower head works just fine. Stop projecting your male behavior onto me.
Why do males whine about "loneliness" when they could jack off and fuck off?
I don't want to have sex with you. You're 61. I want you to stop being a lying, violent asshole

[seeyounexttuesday]

Why would I want sex with you? You're a fat cow with a nose ring.

[Asker]

Male "loneliness" epidemic.
Beggars can't be choosers. You don't see women begging for government-issued sex slaves.
Males admit that they only talk to females if they're trying to get laid, which is why males shouldn't be allowed near young girls.
Also, I don't have piercings, but I used to have pierced ears... ROAR 🦖

[seeyounexttuesday]

they don't let you have sharp items in the asylum?

[Asker]

Males brag about wanting to lock up women who believe MEN'S OWN CONFESSIONS, and yet they act like it's a mystery why women are opting out.
The lioness does not concern herself with the "male 'loneliness' epidemic"

[seeyounexttuesday]

Oh is this where you think you're a badass instead of a lunatic? laughable.

[Asker]

It's a meme, and you're scared of nose rings 😐
You males get rejected and start posting joker quotes 😭😭🫵

[Asker]

Fellas is it lunacy to call someone a r4pist because they admitting to r4pe

[seeyounexttuesday]

How can I be scared of nose rings when the people wearing them are degenerates? Lol. You're a nutter.

[Asker]

"I didn't want to have sex with you anyway!!11!"
ASS PIERCINGS 🦖

[seeyounexttuesday]

Oh no. I'm devastated. I can't fuck some smelly fat bitch psycho!

[Asker]

Do you shower everyday?
Calling me a bitch psycho for being a virgin is moidslop if the highest order.
If males didn't want sex, they wouldn't constantly beg for it

[seeyounexttuesday]

of course, why wouldn't I? I'm calling you a fat pig psycho, not because you're a virgin but because you're a lunatic fatty.

[Asker]

... Have you not made the connection that if women cannot be involuntarily celibate, virgin women must dislike males?
Why would I be a virgin, if not because I am a "lunatic" who listens to men's own confessions?

[seeyounexttuesday]

No one cares what you like. You keep forgetting that.

[Asker]

Males whine about what women do and don't like all the time.
Including on this website.
"That sign can't stop me because reading is for girls!"

[seeyounexttuesday]

Every time I think you’re the batshit craziest that you can be, you top yourself.

[Asker]

Because I listen to what males say or because I got my ears pierced when I hit the wall at age 10? 🦖🦖

[MasterKS]

That's so funny!!

[Asker]

Males should have almost no rights tbh

[MasterKS]

@akser yes male are useless! LOL

[Asker]

I'm not impoverished. Males bring nothing to the table for me.
MALES are the ones constantly begging for sex. Male "loneliness" (horniness and entitlement) epidemic and all.

[MasterKS]

@asker yes male are the evil I know!

[Asker]

Males when they admit to r4pe and people get mad at them: