Guys, if a girl updates her socials to say she's in a relationship with you, why would you tell people that it's not real?

[Anonymous]

Is she thinking it's way more than it is, or is he lying to other people about what she actually means to him?

[spartan55]

Sounds like something that should be discussed through DMs.../s...😂😂

[Asker]

Lol I'm just a casual observer. I reached out to congratulate him, and he said it wasn't real, and he knows what he accepted. I'm like, OK buddy, but it's still out there as such...

[spartan55]

Wtf is a 'casual observer'. Is that code for 'stalker'. People let social media dictate their lives entirely too much. The whole doesn't need to know what the fuck I ate for dinner.

[qwerty2469]

Because she is crazy. She blew me once. We are not a thing.

[Pohjolan]

Because we aren't?

[Asker]

In what way is it not real? You didn't ask her to take it down, you just tell people it's not real.

[spartan55]

@asker what difference does it make? He can handle it however he wants

[Pohjolan]

Look this is a binary. Either I am in a relationship with someone or I am not.
There is no what way here.
Also I'm not reading his mind. Maybe its awkward to ask her to take it down?
Like breaking up without having been in a relationship.

[RedInnocent69]

I wouldn’t

[Asker]

You wouldn't what? Downplay it, or allow yourself to be tagged in it?

[RedInnocent69]

I wouldn’t tell people that it’s not real. You only downplay your relationship when you’re trying to get another one