Does it mean anything specific?

[Lauz9891]

I have been seeing man 32 for the last four months and he is very emotionally mature and intelligent he surprises me often with how he can communicate etc. My question is in the bedroom he hasn’t once tried to flip me over and go from behind he doesn’t try to pin a leg up or anything. The sex is great and I really enjoy it I’ve just never known a guy to not want to do it like that. He likes me to be on top a lot and I’m getting used to that.

What would be the main reason he may be choosing to not try those things. He was also happy to not need to finish the other morning which I feel like I have let him down but not getting him to finish but he said it’s still enjoyable to him and it doesn’t bother him. I’m so confused but so grateful to have this guy who values my pleasure and enjoyment just as much if not more than his own

[Stevepro68]

Well as the old guy in my relationship. She makes me feel wanted and is the aggressive one sometimes. But I think I grew up when porn was something in grimy scetchy movie theaters. Nobody went unless you were a pervert or really wanted to see some dude jacking off. Bleck. So the internet age has made both men and women think this kind of pile driver banging away stuff and doggy seem pretty common. Truth is I feed off my girls energy with sex. I know that reverse cowgirl is not that pleasurable a position for most women. But she knows I like the view from that perspective. So she will do it. I know she likes me on top of her she finds that fact that I am a full foot taller than her and 100lbs heavier sexy. Bottom line you got to let your man know what you like. Trust me he will do it. It's a relationship which means you have to pay attention. There are time when I put my hands on her and she is like get off of me. Other times she is obviously interested but not initiating I get the hint. Pull off her pants and underwear and literally throw her on the couch. Or bend her over standing and she loves the desire it represents. It a development program. If you let it get in your head it will interfere with your pleasure. Tell him flip me over do me doggy and slap my ass... when your getting going. I guarantee over time you will be happy.

[OneViewpoint]

Hey, this is just a thought but... maybe talk to him about this? Tell him he's not a man unless he flips you like a pancake or pins your legs behind your ears. Apparently his chill approach to life is causing you all sorts of insecurities. Oh and tell him that allowing you to ride his cock is a turnoff too. You can ruin this if you just try a little harder.

[Lauz9891]

Well this is absolutely not the case at all. He is more of a man to me because he is the way he is and I love that about him. He is just the first man I have been with that doesn’t try to do those things. And the question was maybe more to see if this is actually common with men that genuinely like and appreciate the girl they are with. Just because I haven’t experienced it and was curious.

[SueShe]

Lucky you! You found a guy whose priority in life is not fornication or sex/pornography.

I don't see where the problem lies. You got a man that does not have the need or urge to "finish" and you seem to be upset about that fact. Where is your problem with all that?

Some people are just like that. They don't prioritize copulation in a relationship and he is one of those good guys that don't. You should actually be happy about that fact.

Rather than to appreciate what you have, you would like to have something that he is perhaps not motivated or interested in giving you.

The only way to find out is really to talk on a face-to-face basis with him.

[Lauz9891]

I’m not unhappy about it I very much appreciate and like it. I guess I maybe should have worded better but I feel like from previous experience that I am letting him down in the bedroom. He is not letting me down at all

[spartan55]

You know if you want to try a new position with him YOU can suggest it too. Why is it all up to him? I don't understand what is 'confusing' you?

[Twalli]

I feel mostly similar to him. Sex feels good even if I don't cum. I don't really care if I do. I just want my fiancée to feel good.

[In_Trance]

No it doesn't