I'm a 5'5 guy feeling it's hard to get a girl. What can I do to attract her?

[AdamMad]

[Chazmatazz269]

You have to work harder than taller guys to be interesting and charming. That’s all there is to it. Think of it like this…
When you are introduced to a new person at a party with lots of mingling and you want to make an impression, how are they going to remember you the next day?
Most people might throw out a modifier or two to refer to you if whoever they’re talking to doesn’t know you by name. So are you going to be the funny short guy, or the smart short guy? Or are you going to be the smart and funny guy? How about the well dressed smart and funny guy who brought drinks for everyone?
You have to work harder than the tall guys cuz anyone can do the work, but you’ll always be shorter. Fortunately, most people don’t work any harder than they have to in order to achieve a desired result. So a lot of tall guys can just be tall and won’t try that hard. Short guys are kind of like fat girls, easily overlooked unless they decide to be undeniable. Good luck!

[MikeTheBartender]

Absolutely, do not use dating apps or make it your last choice, that is really the only place the girls complain about height. If you're meeting girls in the real world, it won't be as much of a problem. That's not to say that tall guys don't have an advantage, they do. But a guy with good game will out game a tall guy any day of the week.

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Did you ever have a period of life where you were completely happy without sex?

[Tamera952]

Trust me, it’s not your height. I’d get that out of your head immediately…. don’t even think that. Now, go out there and get them, tiger! (Roarrrr!) …lol

[itsannalee]

If you aren’t confident enough with your height, just get someone shorter than u. There are a lot adults women who are 5ft.

[AdamMad]

You mean if I am confident I can get girls my height?

[Anonymous]

It’s not really about height. I’ll be honest with you, if a woman has a problem with it don’t take it to the heart. I myself can’t find a guy because apparently I’m “too tall” I’m 5’7 but okay. Don’t focus on “getting a girl”, focus on being comfortable about your height first. The more you blame it on your height the less likely you’re going to be confident. People are going to reject you throughout life in any scenario, sure maybe it’s your height or maybe it’s the way you talk. There are so many things that it could be, but don’t allow height to be the biggest thing you’re worried about since it can’t be changed.
also based off of friends and etc, it really isn’t woman who are worried about height or talk about it much. I’ve seen guys talk about another guys height more than I’ve heard woman talk about it, but then again I can only base it off myself and others I know

[Feltonstar]

I'd agree that dating aps are not where you want to be. In real life women aren't actually as fussed about height. Tom Holland is 5ft 7 and he's a babe. And personally I had a huge crush on a young jet li and he was only 5ft 5 I think.

An easygoing, warm attitude is your best friend. Confidence but not arrogance. Being clear about your intentions (eg: suggesting the place and time once a date is agreed on rather than 'oh let's go out sometime). Don't be wishy washy. Consider places to meet like hobby groups (I hear walking is popular).

[aceleon]

won't matter as long as you are taller than the girl you go for.

of course you have to stand tall (not in the literal sense) with pride, if your height causes insecurity to you remember that womans are sharks, they smell your insecurity or desperation way before you actively feel it.

[Purpleronnie]

You have annoyed me just by mentioning your height like that need be anything to do with it or someway explains or sheds light on your struggle.


If you think in terms of your height affecting your ability to attract ‘a’ girl … then you have already lost.


I would offer that your lack of confidence explains more than your height ever could.

[genericname85]

Think about what things attract you in a partner. Subtract the things that are exclusively female. What's left is what you should invest to develop more yourself. Cause that's what makes you attractive to others. It's not a guarantee but it's a way more usefull investment of time than obsessing about hight.

[snermcger]

This is mostly a myth.

Yes, women prefer men to be taller than them... while in heels.

Most heels are 3-5 inches.

So, if you're 5'5" you can work with women ~5'1" down.

Go Asian, Go Latin and there are still quite a few white girls in there too.

I prefer very small women myself even though I am 6"1" (5'2" and down) so i can tell you the pool is very large.

If you are using apps or dating sites just filter for that result.

[DryGermanGuy]

Two words: Platform boots!

[blackeagle007]

I wonder if they’re on sale

[Kanak333]

You are the same height as my boyfriend.
we are almost the same height and trust me while some women do care about height, your height isn’t the first thing someone is gonna notice at the time of crisis. We prefer an emotionally mature guy, the one who doesn’t abandon us.

Go ahead, your height, looks, colour nothing matters in love

[MJVillarama]

Height isn’t everything , confidence, humor, and being genuine matter way more

[Cj_Shway]

Well itll put you behind the curve compared to taller guys. But it doesn’t mean you can't pull some women.

[Twalli]

I found a girlfriend, and I'm a bit over an inch shorter than you. You just need to find girls that don't care too much about height.

[bunnyboo24]

I see more tall women like shorter men tbh. So maybe go for it?

[Nikki1989]

What does your height have to do with anything?

[Cheerfull009]

5,5 is average height, don't worry , your height will not be problem, average size girls like average size boys

[Alex-Snow]

Be yourself, be interested in them and what they like and do. Keep a smile on.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Are you handsome? I'm regarded handsome at 5'81/2" and some women prefer handsome smaller men. Find one who does.

[abc--123]

Stop worrying about your height and start talking to women

[Godihateyou]

Be funny, be evil, have money. Im 5'5 and all three. Been unhappy married for 20 years.

[Deserter3]

Muscles, I don't know beyond that, I don't know how you look

[MemeSupreme]

get a personality

[Shehnaz]

Build your career.