Have you ever had a ‘what if’ and do you still think about them?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering for guys, have you ever had a what if girl? Like you really liked her but for some reason eg timing, optics they had a partner etc you couldn’t go there. Do you still think about her years later or not? What’s it like for men?

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, yes. There is one girl who lives inside my head. I believe it is due to combination of how much I like her and how badly I failed. I've made plenty of other mistakes with women, but she is the only one that stands out.

[DryGermanGuy]

Hell yeah. 😭
„For of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these: It might have been.“

- John Greenleaf Whittier, Maud Muller

[Anonymous]

Yes. 3 years since I saw her last but I think about her all day, including the imagination of cuddling with her to sleep every single night.

[JDLives]

Yes and yes. She’s taken so nothing I can do.