Possible stalker?

[Dee-girl]

I live in a gated community and I noticed that a guy who greeted me once has been coming around past my house and looking in as if to see if I’m going to come out. He’s done this twice (the first time he followed me but I got in my car). I see him on the cameras. Do you think this could be something dangerous? Should I confront him? Thanks.

[Alex-Snow]

Tell your neighbors about him so they can also keep an eye out. You can also check your local sex offender database to see if one lives near you (they have to poste where convicted ones live) Maybe try to take a pic of him from afar and send it to a friend just in case. Is he around ur age? Maybe it is just an innocent attraction thing? But make sure to lock ur doors at night and keep the curtains closed in ur bedroom. I hope it turns out to be nothing.

[Dee-girl]

Thanks. He’s definitely older than me.

[Alex-Snow]

Also maybe consider getting a video doorbell like Ring.

[animesenpai]

Document, gather as much information as you can and report do not confront

[Anonymous]

Never confront a possible stalker. You are a woman and he is a man. You cannot defend yourself if he reacts violently.

[TonyMetal___86]

Confront him yes but not alone