Would you care if the woman you're going to marry has slept with 30 men before?

[Anonymous]

Okay, those men were her previous relationships. It's none of your business. Besides, that woman didn't exactly cheat on you.

[Berethor]

I care, I don't want to marry a ho, I don't trust her, and it almost like she has cheated on me.

[slatyb]

I wouldn't. At least I know she likes sex. I would be concerned if she had repeatedly cheated in supposedly monogamous relationships.

[Nikki1989]

Someone's past is their business and theirs alone.

[Asker]

Exactly

[bowenw]

It's irrelevant. Best to leave the past in the past as nothing good can come from discussing body count.

[Levin]

It's nae for me lassie.

But I'm sure there's men that won't mind.

[msc545]

I might, but it would depend on a lot of other factors. The problem is that the number of prior relationships is a fairly robust predictor of infidelity in the future.

[Levin]

That last sentence is the nub of it I think.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yes! I wouldn't ask in the first place..

https://www.youtube.com/embed/BBtUFSHl4ZY

[fivebyfour]

I'd be cool with this, kind of a turn on tbh, and no it's not cheating in any sense of the word imho,,,

[Twalli]

No, I mean she wasn't dating me at that time. Although at your age, 30 means you had a lot of short relationships, which is a red flag to me.

[zombiewoof]

It happened before me, not my business, i don't care

[queenofcardio]

You don't have to answer if they ask

[msc545]

Women can also lie about this, and I think they do very frequently.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I would dump her immediately.

[exitseven]

30 is a little too much.

[Mike_Hum]

yeah, I'm not marrying a hoe.

[jahaims]

I wouldn't marry a broken slut

[Nerdvana]

No, I wouldn't care. Is that you?

[Daytoday79]

I don't care how many men she's slept with

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope thanks!

[Siajanua2027]

I care!