What do you wish girls knew about guys?

[Andrewsmith14]

Ladies, ask away—guys, what’s one thing you wish we understood better about you?

[Chazmatazz269]

Men have no secret tumblers. We are utterly simple creatures. We generally say what we mean and we generally mean what we say. It is women’s assumptions and absurd interpretations that create 99% of strife in heterosexual and lesbian relationships.
Abuse and divorce rates are highest in lesbian relationships. Then come heterosexual relationships. Lastly, abuse and divorce rates are lowest in relationships between homosexual men.
If a woman is struggling with men, it’s almost certainly her own fault. Dudes are simple. Full stop.
Stop looking for “secret” insider knowledge. Your fella will tell you what he needs and wants. Give it to him and he’ll chew through diamonds to keep you around.

[spartan55]

That we aren't unfeeling robots. We like to be complimented, reassured, appreciated.

[DishLady]

Meh... Some guys ACT like robots even when a gal does all that.

[spartan55]

Sounds about right for your crew.

[DishLady]

My "crew"? Smh. I don't think I have one of those.

[spartan55]

Okay, people whom you associate with.

[DishLady]

Actually, I've been getting pretty good at distancing myself from many of them now. I feel bad doing it, but I don't like that weird energy.

[DishLady]

(Also, I reserve "associate with" for folks I actually hang out with repeatedly. Once the odd behavior manifests I typically do start backing off bc I don't want to be linked to that person/group.)

[spartan55]

Good policy

[DishLady]

Lol. Gee thanks.

[Kayla45]

Wish I knew why some guys are stone face with little to no emotions, or a lack of natural empathy.

[Taranis_Thunor]

Its because emotions are feminine thinking and if you are constantly emotional as a man, nobody is going to like you.
We don't lack empathy any more then women do at least.
Women often mock men for the problems we have to face, but it's taboo to mock women's problems.

[DishLady]

@Taranis_Thunor Survey Says: ❌ ❌ ❌
Why should it be such a crime for a guy to express any sort of emotion?

[AviatorTom]

@DishLady It's not a crime, and we do show emotion... In ways different from the ways girls show emotion.

[Taranis_Thunor]

@DishLady
It's because people don't sympathise with men when they show weakness.
If a man shoes the same level of emotion as is acceptable for women, everyone finds him annoying and all the ladies will get the "ick".

[Taranis_Thunor]

@DishLady It's brutal but it's just the way it is.

[spartan55]

@Taranis_Thuner
100% correct

[DishLady]

Hmm. Perhaps you guys are too tough amongst yourselves… A good woman appreciates sharing.

[Taranis_Thunor]

@DishLady If that's the case then there's not many good women.

[DishLady]

@Taranis_Thunor, Survey Says: ❌ ❌. ❌
What does a man expressing emotions have anything to do with women being bad? Sounds like you're fishing for some excuse to dump on women. (On G@G? What a surprise.)

[Taranis_Thunor]

@DishLady I was making a point. Most women don't like you oversharing, find it icky and so therefore by your logic most are bad.

[Taranis_Thunor]

@DishLady I think I'd know since whenever I talk too much (which as a highly intelligent autist, is often) it puts women off me.

[DishLady]

@Taranis_Thunor (1) Don't fling your nonsense onto me as if I've told you men OR women are bad. I said no such thing. (2) "ICKY" is a response to what comes out of your mouth; it's not about the talking, it's about what you are saying.

If you keep twisting what a girl says around just to suit your conversational tangent then claim you're making a point that has nothing to do with the topic at hand -- for example -- then the gal will stop wanting to hear you. Not bc you or she is good or bad, but bc you've pissed her off.

[Taranis_Thunor]

@DishLady Are you deliberately not understanding the point I'm making? Im not saying "women bad" I was saying if you think that women who don't like their men expressing themselves are bad, then most are by that logic.
Twisting words isn't something I'm going to do as that'd be deceptive & that's a massive sin in English paganism.

[AviatorTom]

That we guys are really simple creatures. Stop trying to analyze everything we say or do. Save that for your female friends and acquaintances.

[AviatorTom]

@Andrewsmith14 That picture is interesting. All the guys are facing the girls. All the girls are facing the guys... except for one girl who's facing the girls. Guess she's not interested in what the guys have to say or do.

[ThisSiteSux]

That the first time a man gets flowers is at his funeral. It's Fathers day and I have a wife and three daughters. I'm 110% sure they don't know, don't care, and tomorrow will just be another day

[MrChinaski]

That we carry a great weight of expectations on us, particularly career-wise.

[DirtyOldMan777]

We don't just "know" what you like in bed or otherwise. tell us and we will do it.

[Xoirwinkan]

That many guys are a lot more romantic and less sex-brained than they think.

[Jersey2]

We just want things to be simple.

[Anonymous]

That is the entire point of this app.

[blackeagle007]

No. There’s more

[beefcakebradybatson]

That we lads ALWAYS ogle buxom ladies !!!

[Anonymous]

Some of us want our penises cut off

[Anonymous]

Hard decision to know what right or wrong