Would you outright ask a woman you don't know if her 🦉🦉s are real?

[DishLady]

I'm on a first date... the fellow is literally just staring unabashedly at my 🦉-🦉. He was pretty bold about it too, asking if they were real.

I laughed at him (bc I'm relatively small-chested compared to the average gal nowadays), but I also said he was being rude (bc one doesn't talk about such things with someone at their first meeting).

For me a date is supposed to be about getting to know the person and to see if there's chemistry, but I felt like a piece of meat on display. He was obsessed with just looking at me. (I didn't know I had to wear a "my eyes are up here" t-shirt.) He literally didn't want to do more than to just sit and stare. No coffee/tea, no snack or anything... and it was an early-evening date on a work-day. He'd rushed me out of grabbing my own late lunch, but then didn't want to have a meal either... It was all just too odd.

After about 45min of this I we take a walk towards the spot I was going to apparently be eating alone bc he doesn't believe in eating out...

Let's say it's 100% there won't be a second date... or non-date since I don't consider a 45-min public ogling a date. (SMH.)

Guys, would you be that forward with a gal you've just met?

[Bricealan]

@DishLady I'm trying to decide if what you described, could be the absolute truth, in that I can't imagine anyone being that obtuse or downright stupid, although I have seen and been EXPOSED to that kind of idiot behavior in a store.

Can't imagine that you stood for it?

[DishLady]

My assumption is that he was trying for a one-night stand of some kind, bc he was literally just talking about my body for over 20min and he had NO PLAN to go anywhere at all. It was incredibly awkward. I couldn’t even grab MYSELF a coffee bc he wouldn’t consume anything in public… not even water.

Perhaps HE hasn’t been out in a while, but I outright had to ask him what his goal was in asking me out. He laughed and didn’t answer. He just asked another question and changed the subject. It was very odd.

[worldscolide]

oh hell no. But i can almost always tell anyway. After living with a woman who is all natural, there is a certain way they move when natural that fake ones can't replicate.

But again id never ask. Creepy as fuck. eww.

[DishLady]

Obviously a guy will look... I'm not suggesting a guy wouldn't glance and perhaps wonder about it, but I'm usually distracted ordering my coffee while that happens, you know? Lol. This was super creepy.

[worldscolide]

yeah eww. just eww. On that same token when i was dating i was not a breasts or butt man, i was a hair and eye man. Especially if its natural hair color. For example, i love red hair. I also love my wife's hair, which would remind you of looking through a full honey bear at a light

[Abbycado]

Dear lord. My boyfriend didn’t. Thank f for that. I don’t want to do negative calculations. XD

[NoDecision]

I've never heard them being called owls, but I guess "hooters" work.

Guess who I am?

[OlderAndWiser]

On a first date, I hope to hold hands a bit and perhaps - not always - get a good night kiss. No making out, no fondling. Staring at her boobs or talking about favorite positions? Not once in a jillion years!

[Spencer10]

Good god now... how tasteless is that? Duh.

[DishLady]

Lol. I'd like to know how a guy would react if a gal did that to him for 45min. I bet he'd flinch.

[Spencer10]

For sure he would... guys can dish it out but not take it.

[HawkPerception]

I can usually tell if a girls boobs are real... I think anyways. And I would not date a girl who has fake boobs or any surgeries done to her. I prefer a girl who embraces what she has. Don't get me wrong... there are some minor surgeries I'm cool with... like stuff that reduces wrinkles, scars, moles, etc. And in the rare case that someone is disfigured, I think it's fine to have surgery.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

You make it sound like he wanted a second date. But while you were busy judging him for asking something he was curious about, he was busy getting to know you.

[DishLady]

He was getting to look at me in a way that made me feel really uncomfortable and talked about parts of my body as if he was ready to pounce on me any second. You really think I'd give af what he wanted? He was being gross.

"Busy judging him"? He was being disgusting.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Note to self: any guy wanting to have sex with @DishLady is gross and disgusting

[DishLady]

Seriously, bro. Goodbye.

[ryanrhino]

No, highly inappropriate and irregular, just as a woman would not be attempting to discern the size of a guy's package.

[AgentG111]

I've never been around a woman who I wanted to ask her about her owls

[Iron_Man]

No I would never ask her that when I don’t know her that’s rude

[Anonymous]

No, I'm too shy for that.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Is it even that common to have fake ones?

[bowenw]

Never