Why did my super nice male coworker suddenly start being rude to me?

[Anonymous]

Either he kinda raises his voice at me or speaks rudely to me rare moments where he is nice he uses me to be super duper nice to me it’s getting a little annoying tbh

[HollyK21]

You ask about this like every week. At this point, you just need to either ask him or let it go. I’ve said this to you twice already and you said that’s not an option. So let it go. We don’t have the answers to what’s on someone else’s mind.

[Purpleronnie]

Why don’t you just challenge him on his behavior setting boundaries for the way he should be treating you.


This is really not a question anyone can answer we only get your side of the story , for all we know you treat him the same way

[NoDecision]

Because you said "no!"?

[Asker]

No to what

[NoDecision]

To sex, or to his advances silly.

[imemma12]

maybe you insulted him