Who do you turn to when you have no one left to talk to?

[Anonymous]

Guys, do you have someone you turn to when everything is falling apart around you? I used to have someone I could turn about everything but she ghosted me outta no where and randomly got engaged to her baby daddy. That broke my heart and made me not trust women anymore. Besides that, I’ve buried about 9 family members since January and got another one dying. I can’t talk to my friends because they can’t take a conversation seriously, got no family I can talk to. I literally have no one I can vent to.

I feel like im one bad day from having a complete meltdown. Im mentally exhausted and physically exhausted. And im caring less and less about life and everything. I don't know what to do. Im just tired. Any advice or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If I have no one else to turn to I turn to MYSELF because I can always TALK TO MYSELF. As for my imaginary friends I would talk to them however due to circumstances beyond my control they decided to give me the silent treatment.

[OneViewpoint]

I went through the same thing. I'm the baby of the family. I buried them all. Because financially, mentally, and emotionally, I was the only adult in the room. I buried my mother and both sisters in rapid succession over about 12 months. I handled the estates. Worked with the courts and an attorney and law enforcement in 4 states to track down relatives who had gone off the radar. Dealt with death certificates, banks, did the forensic accounting to track down assets. I paid out the estates to beneficiaries. Everyone around me vaporized. Fuck em. I saw it through to the end. It's a good test of your perseverance. And an education about who the people around you really are.

I got through it. You will too. And you're probably gonna do it alone. Welcome to being a man. Suck it up. Keep moving forward. What does not kill you makes you stronger.

[InknKink]

For me it's not a who, it's a what...

When life gets hard I pick of a project, building/mechanical project to occupy my hands while I internally work through what ever it is I need to work through. If that doesn't work, I'll check out for 5-10 days and go camping alone.

[captain_voidwalker]

Honestly talking dosen't realy do much for men. Men tend to hesl through doing things it helps us sort through our thoughts. My advice is gind something to occupy your mind for awhile, like going on a hike or bike ride, maybe hitting up a gun range and slinging some led. Wrench on a car for a bit or fix some things around the house. Things of that nature.

[Nikki1989]

I have no idea what that must be like. I have too many people to chat with, if anything. I could afford to lose a few people.

[ChiTown33]

Myself. And if need be God.

I always remind myself regardless of how bad it gets, try to remember the sun is still coming up tomorrow. And tomorrow is a new day with new possibilities.

[Chazmatazz269]

There is nobody to turn to.
Either i get through it or i don’t. That’s life.

[Mariogirl09]

Id get a therapist. They really do help... good luck

[Anonymous]

Sometime anonymous apps in that case. Used to be Whisper for me or ask. fm for me.

Otherwise.. I don't think I have something to share.

[Pretendingtobesweet]

Call an escort. If you don’t have money to call an escort then make money

[exitseven]

My wife. She is really the I ly one I have

[jamesgoldman]

Myself, a cigar and a stiff drink never fails me

[Anonymous]

Go out and meet new people.

[NathanDavis]

therapy

[Static_In_The_Attic]

When I think of therapy I think of a therapist & as for me I refuse to go to someone that has THErapest in their name.

[NathanDavis]

@Static_In_The_Attic static in THE attic

[NathanDavis]

I get harder

[Marshast]

God and myself!

[MemeSupreme]

my grandma

[TonyMetal___1986]

My mom

[Anonymous]

My dad

[FrodoSkywalker007]

God?