Do guys ever kiss women they’re not attracted to just from fear of loss?

[MissSunshine2]

I’m meaning one of my best guy friends tried to kiss me a few times and insisted that he’s not attracted to me, that he was just scared of losing me, because he knew I liked him. Do people actually do this in real life?

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1 mo

Please note that I am not offended by honesty. I am autistic and if I didn’t want honesty, I wouldn’t ask.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Not me! Kissing is a very intimate thing for me and a major turn on. So if I kiss a woman its because im attracted to her and I'm hoping that more comes from that kiss

[Bklynbadboy12]

What about you? Is kissing an intimate thing for you as well

[MissSunshine2]

Yes, definitely

[slatyb]

No, that's a lie. He's definitely attracted to you, but he's afraid of being rejected so he pretends that he is now. What do you want?

[MissSunshine2]

I made it clear that I have romantic feelings. I only stopped him because he denied an interest in me.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A kiss is a wonderful thing & when you lock lips it’s a magical moment. As for me when the moment is right & I go in for the kiss I’m attracted to her & I kiss her like there is no tomorrow, sparks fly & two hearts become one.

As for the guy that kissed you that says he’s not attracted to you, that’s a bunch of bullshit & secretly he has feeling for you & he probably tried kissing you because he doesn’t want to lose you. The next time he goes in for the kiss if you like him back kiss him back because if you don’t you might lose him.

In life if you never try you will never know.

[WhitneySnow]

No. That is not true. He was feeling lonely and probably horny when he kissed you. He is definitely attracted to you and probably would’ve gone a lot further than kissing if you’d let him. However, I don’t think he is interested in a serious relationship with you, but because that sounds really cold when a guy says it out loud (“I’ll kiss you and I’d probably fuck you if you’d let me but I don’t want a relationship with you”), he lies and says he’s not attracted to you instead.

[Nikki1989]

Some friends kiss each other. It is hardly unusual. I kiss all my friends just to say hello or goodbye. It doesn't mean anything that deep.

[sage2021]

Why does he think that just by kissing you he doesn't have to worry about losing you?

There's so much more that a relationship needs besides kissing.

[ashish804]

Now he is making excuses so that he didn't loose u now

[MissSunshine2]

I don’t understand…

[ashish804]

Dm me

[TonyMetal___1986]

I don't, a french kiss is only reserved for a woman that i love and love me back!

[NathanDavis]

no, that's weird...

[MissSunshine2]

So was he telling the truth?

[MissSunshine2]

Is there a remote possibility that he wanted force attraction to keep me in his life?

[NathanDavis]

I don't think I can tell what he has in mind

also, I don't know the entire context of the whole situation...

[Anonymous]

No but here that is sexual assault and harassment
I don't fancy prison food

[MissSunshine2]

Not if I’m interested too and I already asked him out previously.

[Opinion Owner]

Here if a man makes a move it's a crime

[Paige2006]

No... because they are horny and want sex.