Why do girls like players so much?

[Anonymous]

I've seen many a question on here about a girl trying to get with a player.

Why? why can't they just go for someone who wants to be with them?

[Anonymous]

no one likes players trust me, down the road the young girls realize that.

but players are very manipulative and crazy that they suck naive inexperienced girls into their traps and metaphorically shove a screwdriver in their brain and mess with them. the nice girls or naive ones especially are biggest targets and victims.

the biggest reason why these girls end up in the trap in the first place is because players make the move on them and go after them, they give them attention and display confidence, which is key to courting a girl, they make conversation, exchange numbers and just get things going. even though nice guys are wonderful deep down, their biggest downfall is that they never make the move or display confidence and before they get to the girl, a player or jerk has already gotten in her head before the nice guy has. I think this this the chief reason nice guys whine and complain why girls choose the bad guys. its not about choice at all. there's not really much to choose when only one party makes the move ya know? nice guys want the girls to go after them, but let me be real with you, not all girls have broken the ice and gathered the courage to go and ask men out in this day, some will, but most of them are shy. bad guys have that confidence to do that and that confidence and assertiveness is a huge turn on for women.

[justaskin8888]

excellent post!

[Marieauguste]

PREACH! lol that is so true especially with the nice guys taking too long and yes confidence is key but nice guys often can't even muster 2 ounces of it.

[letsdance]

i don't know why for sure. But I know that sometimes some think that's all they are worth. maybe they have not met a good guy yet and those type of guys are the first to give them attention...

[countrygirl123]

My guy was a player...but stopped with me. I saw a drastic change in him. I wasn't even trying to get with a player, and that's how it turned out.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Girls like guys who are attractive and whom other girls like. Players are also kind respectful charming and confident unlike ugly guys who are resentful at the world for their mistreatment

[goldgunsgirls]

Cause they don't like the commitment maybe haha. But keep in mind that most girls do want to be with someone who just wants to be with them.

[cuteandsmart]

I love being made a fool of. I love feeling like sh*t. I love being used.

Oh wait I hate players so I hate those things. We are not all the same.

[Anonymous]

I don't. I'm a virgin so I prefer a nice guy. But from what I've heard from other girls, they like players because they're super good in bed.

[Anonymous]

Humm... Beats me. Personally, I like to have an identity and dignity. I also like to be respected.

[JustBeingReal727]

You've witnessed that to huh? I don't get it either. Anyone who say's they don't I call BS.

[handsomejackk]

They don't.

Their vaginas do.

[stillagoodgirl]

I think some don't know he's a player til later

[NewClassic]

They tend to be the best charmers

[Anonymous]

He's been around so he must be good

[Anonymous]

Its the charisma

[Anonymous]

confidence lol