Polls: Guy's Behavior

The boyfriend is going on a lads holiday soon and I can't help but worry immensely about what he will get up to when he's out there. Lads holiday to a place like magaluf, Malia, kavos etc is one of those holidays where people go to get pissed and get laid - he said it himself once. I know he's been on one of these holidays before and has been a bit of a man slag, as were all his friends, and he had booked this holiday before we were together. I have no reason to not trust him, and I've spoken to him about it and he's assured me he loves me and would never do such a thing but I can't help worry! Knowing what these places are known for and the fact that most of his friends going are single (except one guy but he's a prick anyway and i know he will probably cheat), makes me worry so much!! what to do and how to get this off my head I dont know, any suggestions? Sucks having a pessimistic nature.

So I've been talking with this guy for a couple weeks now and were both busy of course and don't always reply right away to texts etc but its going good. We aren't a couple or anything by the way right now. But what I realized is even if we don't talk much for a day, he always tells me what he's up to. If he doesn't respond for a few hours he'll say like, just got back from a game, work, went out or just what be did etc and that he's tired or he'll tell me like how the game went or whatever. I'm interested in him of course so I don't mind it at all, I think its nice that he tells me but I just wonder why he does that sometimes. Like yesterday we hardly got to talk and he texted me in the morning saying what he did and he was obviously busy from what he told me so I didn't mind but do you think he's doing it just to let me know that he's still like there for me/thinking of me? We have days where we talk a lot but some days he's just too busy like I said and he'll usually text me that night before he goes to bed even if he's about to fall asleep soon. What do you think? Thanks!

Last year I met him in one of my classes. I was the only person he'd go up to for Q&A's from on the classwork as well as asking me if we had a quiz or can I use your eraser. Simple things like that. But it was only to me. No one else. He hardly talks in any of his classes. I asked him to be in 3 projects with me and he said yes to all. He asked for my # due to we couldn't do it on the day I assigned to do it on. A month later I kind of texted him for a while but his replies were short and would text back an hr or more later. He never texted first. His friend in that class with me would tell me that the shy guy is ripped and things he'd tell him, Tell her you play hockey. He would say no, or put his head down/smile. When I talked to him, he replies differently than he does with other girls. He says a few words or nods his head. A few times when I'm near him he breathes a bit deeply. He's a bit nicer when his friends aren't near me.

Last summer I texted him a bit but it was again not very much he would say.

Senior year his friends mentioned me or giggle to him jokingly when I was around. The shy guy would say "I don't like her. She's weird or shut up." A girl that he barely knows went to him and asked about me. He said very quickly, I don't understand why so many people think that I like her. She's overreacting. 3 weeks ago I told him that I've liked him for a year. He was looking at his phone, had a small shyish smile. "Sure alright thanks... bye." Then left. The same day he texted me and said sorry about walking off earlier I'm pretty shy. I said why are you shy. He didn't text back. Then I said tbh when you left I thought you wanted to ignore me. He didn't text back. 4 days later I texted him the real reason I wanted to confess to him. It was about his friends teasing him about me and that I thought he knew. I also said if there's anything you want to tell me, I'm here. I also said sorry about asking why he's shy. He didn't text back.

A new guy started at my work beginning of this year, and instantly I felt a connection with him. We flirted like crazy for a few months and on a drunken night out, he said I wasn't his Type but he kissed me several times. I pushed this aside as I didn't think anything would come of it. About a month ago we went for a work drink and he said he had wanted to kiss me and he did several times again! I was so confused as I got in my head that nothing was to ever happen again. The flirtation carried on but not as intense. We went out again a few days ago on a work night out... Everyone started to leave and we wanted to stay out, after several drinks later we were dancing and kissing... It felt so different this time and I ended back at his place. He kept saying he wouldn't believe I was at his house and that I make him nervous. We had sex that night and it was amazing. He was asking me about future families, and did I see myself getting married etc. the next morning and with a huge hangover I left. But at work he hasn't really mentioned it... I'm too scared to ask what he feels as he said before I wasn't his type? Any guys out there can I have your advice? Xxx

1 year ago he gave me his number because we had to do a project together. Months later I texted him a bit but his replies were short and he would text back an hr or more later. He never texts first. His friend who we had the same class with would tell me the shy guy is ripped. The shy guy would do is put his head down/smile. Once his friend whispered to him, Tell her you play hockey. The shy guy doesn't talk to me. I tried to but he sounds bored or doesn't know what to say. With other girls he sounds much different. That whole year I was the only one in class he would go for help/get answers from.

Senior year his friends would mention me jokingly to him when I'm around. The shy guy would say, I don't like her, she's weird, no, or shut up. Once his friend and him saw me in the halls. The friend nudged him, pointed at me and gave me a wtf face. The shy guy looked at me then looked away. His face was blank. One time in class his friends and him were doing an art project as a group. I asked, Wow who came up with this design? His friend said, The master (shy guy's name). His friends somewhat laughed. 2 months ago a girl that he doesn't know asked about me. He said, Why do so many people think that I like her? All we did was a project together. She's overreacting.

2 weeks ago I told him that I like him. He looked at his phone then back at me. He had a half smile and said "sure alright, bye" and left.

He texted me on the same day, "Hey sorry about walking off earlier, I'm pretty shy." I asked "why are you shy?" I also texted "Tbh I thought that you wanted to ignore me lol". He didn't text back. Days later I sent him a long text of the real reason why I wanted to tell him which was that "I had a feeling your friends knew. I'm sorry that I like you and that I asked why you're shy". I told him that I thought he was embarrassed and it was my fault. I also said if there's anything you want to admit to me, I'm here. He STILL didn't text back.

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So I liked this guy, he was showing interest, but then when I asked him a question in class one day over text, he blew it off and then told a couple people how I bothered him. I reacted quikly by saying "I won't bother you anymore" and then deleted him on snapchat and his number. He hasn't initiated anything now, what happened was back on Tiesday. His excuse for saying that, was that he was just joking around and I didn't bother him a lot. I miss talking to him, he told one of my friends he still considered me a friend. Does he think I'm mad at him, so that's why he isn't initiating something? He used to snapchat me whenever he wasn't busy, so it's not like it isn't usual for him to initiate things. Should I add him back?

I am a woman who just discovered about the movement today while reading a few questions here on GaG. I thought the movement was cute, and didn't take it too seriously. Let these men live how they want as long as they aren't harming anyone. One of the big things they're known for is swearing off marriage and not having children (though some have/done both). I thought, AWESOME, I want neither of those things too anymore! So, now I was a little intrigued and read more into them. I began to agree with some of their blogs, until I met the extremist part of the group.

Now, I'm an equalist. I don't think men should have all the power over everything, and the same goes for women! In this world though, many women truly are oppressed, but that doesn't make the male oppressed crowd any less significant (YES, MEN CAN BE OPPRESSED.) I truly think as humans, what's between our legs shouldn't dicate our lives, but a lot of it does. Men, by society's view, have to be strong, dominant, masculine, and in power of authority. No emotions for them! And women can only be submissive, below men, wives, and mothers. They are supposed to be quiet, and follow their man. Well, not everyone fits that mold, and I'm an example of that. Both sides are truly screwed over by society's unjust standards, and my only wish is one day to find balance. I know men and women are different, but we are all human. Why not treat us like humans? Why does everything have to be so divided in every little detail of our lives?

Sorry for ranting, but back to my point before, I met the extremist part of the group. To me, they truly were sexist and horrible, at least by their comments. Many of their views came from biased opinions ("Several women screwed me over, so women suck!) and sterotypes. It was reasons like those I grew to disagree with the feminist movement. They became too extreme and irrational with some of their points for me to believe in their cause any longer. So, what do you think?

My boyfriend is always so mean to me everytime I vent :( It hurts me but after 2/3 days he apologizes and then it happens all over again..
What should I do?

I started talking to this guy 2 months ago and it was apparent that I only talked to him cause I was interested. Everything went well, he would flirt with me all the time and tell me how he found me attractive. He had a couple of girlfriends in the past but never kissed them cause he was a coward. He had his first kiss with me. We were very close and so I thought it was time that I told him my feelings and how I would like a relationship. He said he has feelings for me to but would like to take things slowly. He said he had commitment issues because of his past relationships (last girlfriend cheated). After that I noticed a decrease in talking. Sometimes it even says seen or he takes days to reply. We even went 1 week without saying anything. Part of me feels like he led me on and then ghosted which is unfair and I should confront him. Another part of me just wants to let things go and not say anything so that way I don't look desperate, clingy or needy. What should I do?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN?
This is a guy who likes me but has been distancing himself the past few days. So this Snapchat is sort of random lol
Is he trying to let me know he's like still interested lmao?
I'm so petty hahahaha

The Snapchat was a funny one of him looking really cute :'(

So I was in math class one day. I was talking to my two closest friends, my back to my crushes group of friends. All of a sudden I hear "Hey Chelsea" very suspiciously from one of his friends. I talk to that guy, but NEVER in that class. Then I say "hey.," back and notice they are all staring at me except my crush. Then when I was about to turn away his other friend jumps in with a "so how are you?" Again, this guy also talks to me but NEVER in this class. His other friends dont talk to me and are staring and smiling suspiciously. I say "umm Im pretty good? Haha" and then when I am about to turn I hear "OOH OOH YO TREVOR SAYS HI, TREVOR SAYS HI TOO" from them and they are smiling. Then I hear my crush, Trevor say "you guys are all savages" and his face is a git red.

Days later the guy who said hi to me in the first place tags Trevor in my picture from 5 weeks ago. I guess he was stalking my twitter because I haven't posted in a while and he favorited that picture 5 weeks ago. I tag him and say "?" And he doesn't reply. Then I inbox him asking why he tagged Trevor. He read the messages I sent him but never replied to them and it has been 3 days.

What is happening? Does Trevor like me? Do his friends know I like Trevor and theyre making fun of me? Are they making fun of Trevor because I like him and he feels awkward because he doesn't feel the same?

Why does he do this?
Sending me screenshots of his convos with other girls and stuff PLUS telling me "she had a sweet voice"

I'm talking belt, button and zipper.
CURIOUS As to why my fiance don't like this. He finds its weird.