Should I confront him or just let it go?

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I started talking to this guy 2 months ago and it was apparent that I only talked to him cause I was interested. Everything went well, he would flirt with me all the time and tell me how he found me attractive. He had a couple of girlfriends in the past but never kissed them cause he was a coward. He had his first kiss with me. We were very close and so I thought it was time that I told him my feelings and how I would like a relationship. He said he has feelings for me to but would like to take things slowly. He said he had commitment issues because of his past relationships (last girlfriend cheated). After that I noticed a decrease in talking. Sometimes it even says seen or he takes days to reply. We even went 1 week without saying anything. Part of me feels like he led me on and then ghosted which is unfair and I should confront him. Another part of me just wants to let things go and not say anything so that way I don't look desperate, clingy or needy. What should I do?

Confront him

Let it go

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Answer 1

kaminalove

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He kind of ghosted because you came out with your feelings and he needed time to think. I'd say to give him time then you confront him to see how he is doing. So that at least you gave him the freedom to think about it and you can make things clear.

Good luck!

Answer 2

bubble_tea | 608 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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confront if that's what you need to let go. you've got nothing to lose. what he thinks about you shouldn't matter if that's what you need to find closure.

let it go if you can.

Answer 3

Anonymous

if men tell u that they not tryna be in a relationship they are telling the truth : they don't want to be in one with you!

Answer 4

stubbsy | 372 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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if he can't realise that by not keeping his interest in you noticeable to you then he risks losing you, then he doesn't deserve your efforts and you deserve better, x

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