Should I confront my boyfriend about ignoring my texts or will I sound crazy?

[Anonymous]

What really bugs me is that because my group chat is super active on Messenger, I'll see all the time when he's active since it literally shows you who is active. It annoys me a lot, and I think it may just be a mistake on Facebook's end because Messenger isn't always accurate with active status. However, his status goes from on and off all of the time consistently throughout the day which makes me think it is accurate. It just ticks me off because if you don't want to text me, just let me know so I don't bother you or waste my time. It's rude to me. I do think that space is healthy in a relationship, but it's something that should be communicated.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Communication is a basic requisite for being in a relationship.

If he can't respect you enough to text back or even be in a relationship, then he doesn't deserve the 'benefits' of a relationship.

Call him out on his bullshit and don't feel sorry about it. Sometimes people are genuinely busy, but if you're posting online it's probably a recurring problem.

To litmus test if he's selectively choosing to ignore you, text him DTF or something sexual and see how long it takes for him to take the bait.

If he can magically appear in 3 seconds when it usually takes hum 3 hours, dump him because he's using you.

[Wise4myage]

Being ignored sucks, especially when the other person is online. So yeah, he needs to know how you feel.

[Chris2769]

Talk to him. And if he plays it down or is rude, just play his game

[Iron_Man]

You need to talk it out of course you should talk to him

[Anonymous]

he could just be busy and checking his messages