Should I confront my girlfriend about her talking to random guys online?

[AllenShoutNever]

Okay so its plain and simple, my girlfriend has two cites that I know of called 'tagged' and 'myyearbook'. on her my yearbook it says she's in a relationship so that's a good sign, but I'm not sure about her tagged. I've looked down and saw that she was texting a guy and as his name was 'alex tagged' she has also told me about an instance before we were dating about how she was texting a guy then something happened and he also had a girlfriend, I don't remember the full story. She also sometimes does that chatroulette thingy where you randomly webcam with people. What I'm curious of, is should I confront her the next time I see her and ask her why she texts and talks to random guys? or should I let it go? Am I being over protective and too concerned or what? yall tell me your opinion (: thanks

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THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR ANSWERS (:

[dunc17]

Since she openly texts them in front of you, I think you don't have anything to worry about. I would be worried if she were hiding it from you. They could just be friends that give good advice or someone fun to talk to every once in a while. Girls can have guys as friends without feeling anything...not sure about the other way around but it is possible lol so I would relax. If it gets to where she puts them ahead of you, then I'd be concerned and ask about it.

[AllenShoutNever]

Oh dang you make a great point, thanks.

[KillingMeSoftly]

Nope, if roles were reversed I'd teller to talk to you about it too. try giving her your attention a lot more for the next month or so. Maybe then, she'll stray away from seeking other guys attention on her own and you won't seem insecure either. if not, you need to talk to her about it and let her know you're not too cool with it.

[AllenShoutNever]

i don't know how to give her more attention than I already do, most of the time I text her everyday all day and I see her about every other day if not everyday o:

[KillingMeSoftly]

then it's time to have a sit-down, and be upfront and honest with her about your concerns.

[AllenShoutNever]

true that, that's what the majority have been saying. thanks btw

[Deft_maiden]

As his boyfriend ( if you are ) then yes absolutely your are entitled to get to the bottom of it

[Deft_maiden]

Her*

[AllenShoutNever]

mhm I am her boyfriend :)

[Deft_maiden]

Well get to the bottom of it. You deserve to know

[cavmanier]

I'd be really turned off by her doing that. She should at least let you know the situation.

[AllenShoutNever]

thats what I'm feeling, turned off and pissed off o:

[Anonymous]

She's your GF, not your wife. Same rules apply to you, so talk to random chicks

[AllenShoutNever]

thats not just not me haha, I'm a loser, I know

[Stilover]

Ya I would confront her, tell her you don't really feel comfortable with it. My ex would do that sort of sh*t too until one day I invaded his privacy and checked his Facebook messages and text messages in his phone. That is why he's now an EX... I didn't like what I found

[AllenShoutNever]

yeah true but guys can be way different. Like for instance I don't trust guys at school around my girlfriend because I know what theyre capable of eventhough I'm not one of them

[bambimonster]

maybe you should just let her know how you feel, its better to sort things out and clear your doubts don't be too possessive just tell her casually. But sometimes girls may text other guys but they only have one guy in their heart. Maybe you aren't paying much attention on her.

[AllenShoutNever]

thats what I'm thinking, just letting her know, maybe I should go by what I say in others questions; 'communication is a key aspect in a healthy and successful relationship'

Oh know that scares me, because I give her so much attention

[bambimonster]

heap just tell her how you feel! don't accumulate and then one day when you burst it out everything will be a disaster! me and my boyfriend always communicate! and we have been 15 months together ;)

[starlight124]

Tell her how you feel about her doing that, she has you too. You can always text and webcam it too :)

[AllenShoutNever]

yeah and I give her a lot of attention, it really pisses me off and turns me off to think about it