This may sound weird coming from a guy, but if I was a girl, I'd be less hurt if I saw my boyfriend watch p*rn than message slutty girls..if the convo shows he somehow knew them, be worried. How did you find out anyway..? Bring it up like that, like how you found out (just don't make it sound you're spying on him).
It bothers you, so letting go would mean pushing your own feelings aside, and that's not fair to yourself. So you *should* tell him about it first. Personally I think *before* you make the breakup-move if his answer is not satisfactory. Let him follow your logic step by step until your decision, he'll understand. Or not, but then he was never for you in the first place.
But surely, don't let it go..it's not healthy for your self-image which you already mentioned is not as high (as it should :-) )
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are these girls he knew before (ie. long term friends, who happen to be slutty) or girls he's finding online? if it's the latter, you've got to talk to him about it. just say that because you two got together online, you're worried that he'd find someone else the same way. give him the chance to explain why he's doing what he's doing, and take it from there.
good luck, and don't be so hard on yourself.
I would be worried,
I am kinda a blunt person when it comes to things like this, so I would ask him up front
I'd be worried enough to break up if I were in your shoes.
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You should confront him about this. And be forceful about it too. If its seems like he's lying, then dumb his ass fast.
If you're going to break up, make that clear first. Break up, then tell him why.
Yes you should be worried...You should talk to him about this problem...Tell him how you feel about it,
if he's doing stuff like that, you should be worried about it
Yes, brifaye, you must be worried.
He's horny :D
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