Polls: Guy's Behavior

About him:

- Before:
-Acted like a fuck buddy, and didn't show his soft side,

- Now:

-Tall, sweet, charming, loyal ( I hope. Sometimes you never know ), wants to know what's on my mind, wrapped my ankle when I hurt it, tells me after every single time we hung out that he enjoyed our time together, listens to me, likes to cuddle, apologizes when he says something insensitive, and the sex is 👌🏻.

About us:

-Friends/f-buddies, good communication, cares about me, and charming

-Didn't take me seriously the first time, chose another girl over me, then came back and apologized for not treating me right, and says he wants to gets serious.

I've met different woman who are afraid to post pictures of them with their friends because they're scared the man they're looking at might try to hit their friend up (especially if she thinks her friend is better looking than her).
While this makes a lot of sense, there was a study online that was like "no you're doing it all wrong, you scientifically look better when with a group of lady friends" so here I am again with another good question. Men, what goes on inside your heads when a woman/your woman brings her pretty friends around? Would you discourage it? If so, to what extent? (ex: posting pictures with them is fine but bringing them around me is a little tempting)
Be honest! 👀

I have suspected this for a while that we are just plain the dumber sex. I don't want to fabricate an elaborate explanation for it. All I've truly got is the thought that we are just dumb.

As a whole many of us keep falling for guys who string us along emotionally and dangle that carrot in front of our face. Even when we technically know he's fooling us, we are prone to taking that bait and munching down. I feel like we are often willing to take whatever is offered to us.

For instance I am in an emotional harem (i do not fornicate but maybe the other girls are or are willing to fuck him) with a guy and these other women at work. I was the first girl he took so i got to see him finesse the other two. I dont think he even tried hard especially with the last one. Some girls are easier though.

But anyway, this is a man who told me he used to have girls wanting him at the same time and insinuated that having mutiple wives is ok and normal. Clearly he would be into that.

Oh did i mention he has a girlfriend? She probably doesn't know about his harem but he told me that she knows he flirts and its ok because they trust each other. But this is the same man who wants to fuck me for almost a year now.

My neighbour has talked about about us living together if we were to be evicted as your tenants aren’t extending our lease - he first suggested it when it was just the both of us in conversation. He was smiling/laughing about it when he mentioned it. I know he is attracted to me but js this him hinting at wanting something more?

A couple days later when we revisited that topic in front of other neighbours - he mentioned it again and said we should just move in together and have fun/ throw parties together. He had this yeah as a matter of fact look on his face and kept talking about the perks of us living together but I played it off and was like yeah totally. The fact that he said it again with others around made me think he’s considered it. Is this him hinting his interest or just causal flirting?

• Simp - n. Someone who does way too much for a person they like, usually when a man treats a woman like a queen while he does not get anything close in return

Guys, is it possible for you to be flirty around your crush one day (I. e making banter, purposely running into her in your boxers) and then another day later (you’re a bit tongue tied/awkward around her)?

(She looked more chill one day and another day, she was looking really nice in a dress that has had an effect on you before (I. e you were tongue tied when she wore a similar style dress)

Like she thinks she's nthing special, she thinks she looks ugly smells bad and stuff like that?

I had a mild chest pain yesterday and so my boyfriend took me to the doctors
The doctor said I might have a blood clot so she told me to go the hospital to get a blood test only to check.

We went to the hospital
And this young male nurse came out to call me - and my boyfriend came inside the room with me

This male nurse was asking questions like "tell me where the chest pain is"
And so I told him its near my breast area
And the male nurse proceeded to examine me by touching my chest area and around my boob area

And my boyfriend got abit annoyed and asked him
"Can u get a female nurse please? I don't feel comfortable you touching my girlfriend"
So he got a female nurse
But the female nurse was just standing there and the male nurse started to examine me again

And so my boyfriend got angry and said
"Why are you touching her and not this female nurse? I told you I don't feel comfortable about you touching my girlfriend. I don't like this. Lets go babe, get up and we're leaving now"

Was my boyfriend overreacting or was he in the right?

Hi! I am clueless and dumb in the dating scene so please don't skin me alive but still give your honest opinions please! I met this guy on a dating site 2 weeks ago and he seemed really interested in me and asked to meet right away after texting for about 3 days. I was a little hesitant on meeting as I've been on dates previously and had wasted my time getting played, so asked him to meet a week later to see if he was still interested. We texted back and forth for the entire week and met up. The date went really well, good connection, he held my hand and asked for a second date straightaway. I deleted my dating app a week ago and told him so when he asked if I was seeing anyone else.
So, two days after our first date, we met up again, though this time the conversation a bit dry and I was nervous. He told me he had deleted the dating app while we were on our walk then sat us down in a garden where convo didn't flow smoothly resulting in long awkward silent pauses. I tried to bring up convo but they ended dryly. He put his arm around me and after another awkward silence, gave me a little peck on the lips. We left and I walked him back to his car where he gave me another peck again, this time not mentioning a third date at all. After the second date, he didn't text as quickly as he did the first time, so I initiated contact first and thanked him for the date. He replied the next day but since then his replies have been slower than they were before. His texting tone had remained the same though. I'd also noticed he'd been online on the dating app recently too. I think it's fairly obvious he's lost interest but I like to be blindly optimistic at the wrong time, so someone knock some sense into me? Thanks. He's also quite a busy person so maybe that's why? Should I ask for a third date or leave it be :'(

And if so, which workouts do u think she does?

So I've been seeing this guy and I've been telling this guy about a guy friend I've known longer than him and he said he's not worried about it and he trusts me. He thinks something weird going on with my guy friend but for me to see him and if i dont get a good vibe. He was just giving me his opinion. He periodically asks about my guy friend and recently he asked if i was going to meet up with my guy friend and then thats when i went in and asked his opinion on my guy friend situation