Guys can you be both flirty and nervous/tongue tied around your crush?

[Anonymous]

Guys, is it possible for you to be flirty around your crush one day (I. e making banter, purposely running into her in your boxers) and then another day later (you’re a bit tongue tied/awkward around her)?

(She looked more chill one day and another day, she was looking really nice in a dress that has had an effect on you before (I. e you were tongue tied when she wore a similar style dress)

Absolutely yes

No it’s one way or another

[caring__1]

There are a couple of ways to look at this situation. First off, introverts can appear very functional within their structure yet very awkward outside it. He may have learned how to be flirty in certain situations but has no idea what to do next. He may appear nervous and tongue tied once he finds himself in an unfamiliar situation.

The next possibility is he's drawn to and comfortable with natural, down-to-earth girls. When she shows up the next day dressed for success, he may assume she is out of his league... that he wouldn't measure up to her expectations of a partner.