IIs it hot or cute when a woman thinks lowly of herself?

[Anonymous]

Like she thinks she's nthing special, she thinks she looks ugly smells bad and stuff like that?

Humbleness is good

I dont like that

[MCheetah]

In the middle. I think being a little insecure is good for me personally, because I can't STAND high ego in anyone; a potential love interest or a guy. Confidence is a massive turn-off to me, because no one is perfect and neither are you. I was going to vote for option A, but then you said "thinks she looks ugly, smells bad," etc. That's taking it too far.

I prefer a girl who likes some things about herself and doesn't like some things about herself, not one who is trying to make YOU sound like a loser just for being with her. A moderate amount of insecurity is normal for me. Saying "my pussy stinks and I'm hairy, why are you even with me?" is enough to make me start agreeing with her, even if I didn't at first.

So I voted for option B, even though ego is far more of a turn-off for me than a moderate amount of humbleness. And I say this as someone who pretty much hates everything about my physical appearance (but not mentioning it 24/7, or every day.) In other words, try to aim for a 50-50 split at least in what you like vs dislike about yourself. Many people want a 90/99 to 01 split ("confidence, ego, conceit, arrogance," etc). I'd even be fine with 30-70. But what you're describing is an 80-20, or even a 01/99 split, where the person just thinks they're trash and worthless.

[MrOracle]

There's a big difference between being humble and having no self-worth. This is the latter, and it's not attractive. Being humble is attractive, but humble people have self-worth - they just don't OVER-exaggerate their worth.

Too many people think the only options are the extreme positions, but most people live in the middle, and that's where most people find happiness.

[The_Maphio]

Humbleness and self-loathing are VERY different things. While humbleness is a noble type of demeanor, self-loathing is hardly a positive trait. Makes one miserable and that's something people can feel.
It's not really something that attracts people, if not to put a hand on your shoulder and ask "are you ok?".
If even that.

[X68yd5jn]

I mean whats the difference?

[The_Maphio]

@X68yd5jn A grand master in a trade that doesn't diminish other people's work in the same field is a humble master. A good practitioner of a trade that is not at the top and believes he's a failure for that is self-loathing. Whereas the first will most likely be a great teacher of his trade as well as a practitioner, the second will hardly ever better himself at his trade, and teaching others will never occur.
The difference between the two concepts is as blatant as day is different from night.

[X68yd5jn]

Nope. Nothing clear abou comparing people at different points.

[kkirk4442]

Being humble and thinking lowly of yourself is not the same thing. Lowly is a feeling of lack of worth. Being humble, is caring about others, considering their feelings, and often putting them before you.

[Adam1978]

No you shouldn't think badly about yourself. There is a big wide middle ground where you just are a member of society with all the flaws and talent you just happens to have.

[boggboss]

There is a difference between low self astern and being humble seeing yourself as shit is not hot or cute its a massive turn off

[X68yd5jn]

Whats the difference?

[boggboss]

Being humble is someone knowing they are not the best looking or understanding they may look average or below average thinking you look ugly tho shows a lack of respect or self love

[boggboss]

When someone has a lack off confidence or self love it is a massive turn off and will push people away or draw people that will use it to exploit you

[X68yd5jn]

Loving yourself is no good. Its narcissistic. I dont get why people are obsessed with themselves.

[boggboss]

Lol u think simply loving your self is narcissistic lol what are u talking about being obsessed with yourself maybe but if u have no love for yourself your off to a terrble start when it comes to finding a partner lol thats some true crazy talk 🤣

[X68yd5jn]

No. Why would you love yourself.

[boggboss]

I have already explained it without loving yourself you are more susceptible to someone abusing you or treating you like shit and just accepting it why do u think people that have no self love or are heavy insecure get into abusive relationships? It because without loving yourself u tend to set no boundaries on whats ok or not

[AlexanderAnttila]

Why. Would. That. Be. Attractive? And neither is conceit. What is it with people today not understanding balance?

[Anonymous]

No babe. Low self esteem attracts toxic men. They will try to suck the life out of you cause they know you will never leave them cause you think no one else likes you

[exitseven]

I don't think it is cute. I think women that have good self esteem are hot.

[FilmGuy93]

What? How on earth would self loathing ever be appealing?

[kitkills]

If you don't like yourself, it comes across like you aren't worth liking at all. Personally it steers me away completely

[CreamySeed]

If she takes the dick anything goes

[kitkills]

Thanks, that was repulsive.

[X68yd5jn]

@kitkills he's a lowlife.

[kitkills]

He is. I hate him : )

[CreamySeed]

@X68yd5jn blocked 😂 dont like my shit don’t respond simple as that

[CreamySeed]

I could give a rats ass about any male opinions on here to be honest im on a mission to block them all

[strawberrylipstick]

if i didn't know better i'd think you had a gay crush on kitkills. degrader kink much?

[CreamySeed]

@strawberrylipstick oh yay another blue i can block i love getting rid of noise on my feed

[applebottomfur]

@strawberrylipstick shh he's in denial

[applebottomfur]

you two would be really cute together 🥺

[applebottomfur]

unblock him and say hi, no balls

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur i dont know why the hate for my comment i think you all misunderstood me oh well

[applebottomfur]

in all seriousness, im sure you can come to an understanding if you guys talk about it through DMs. my statement was legit, you should unblock him to maybe try and convince him you were right , i dont have a problem with it so maybe he'd like to say why he does

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur i am unblocking no one lol. It keeps my questions free from blue noise i only care about wut girls think on here

[applebottomfur]

damn i was gonna send you nudes for it but now im on Kit's side lmao

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur yea ok wutev bro

[applebottomfur]

actually you gave me a good idea so thank you ,, he looks cute so maybe he'll message back

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur i hope he likes your dick pic dude

[applebottomfur]

if i did have one it'd be bigger than yours 😊

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur your clitoris is probably bigger than my pp

[applebottomfur]

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[CreamySeed]

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[applebottomfur]

lmao well Kit responded so you got me to talk to a hot guy so thanks. see ya bye

[CreamySeed]

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[applebottomfur]

by the way you really do need to regulate who you tell that you have a micro dick

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur wut do u care my friend

[applebottomfur]

i dont, just some advice XD

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur the clicks love my man-clit

[applebottomfur]

LMAO own it -- its not like a less-than-average dick has ever made a girl cum anyway. if you're less than average it may as well be micro XD

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur i have clit battles where we rub the clits together in a wrestling match

[applebottomfur]

LMAO damn if i wasn't crushing on Kit i'd be all in your DMs right now 😂

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur you are weird af

[applebottomfur]

listen im just being honest , i'll talk to anyone for dick ✋🙄

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur i have a dick 🍆

[CreamySeed]

I might follow and slide into your ahem DM🍆

[applebottomfur]

i dare you 😩

[CreamySeed]

@applebottomfur omg i followed 😱

[Luckycharms12]

To hard on yourself