Questions: Guy's Behavior

We are taught to man up which is overall a very good in my opinion. It has to do with taking accountability for our actions and enduring tough times to the best of our ability. It’s also about doing what works and solving problems. Being self reliant.

However any proud man will tell you that looking for approval, compliments or worst of all sympathy looks pathetic.

There is also something about getting approval, compliments or even sympathy (at the appropriate time) that makes it much more genuine when we are not looking for it or even trying to avoid it.

Anyway just because we don’t ask for those things doesn’t mean we don’t need it.

So you are out somewhere and happen to witness a little exchange between two guys. one dude is completely disrespecting the other calling him derogatory names, and the other guy is not responding to it at all. and remains silent AND walking away.

What would you think about the guy not responding to the other dude disrespecting him?

I can’t think of anything more annoying than being equal/the same to women. It’s our differences that attract us.

The modern brainwashing is that we need to be the same. Where is the fun in that?

I often wonder why girls are into such douchebags. They love guys with tattoos. It’s like you want to get played and cheated on.

Like a really good guy isn’t going to tattoo himself for attention cause he has standards and values

I want a girl to show me a lot of interest and then I’ll make a move etc….

I want a girl to think I’m the most handsome/perfect man in the world. True compatibility.

So I don’t want to feel like I’m trying too hard

I always see drug dealers, and the scummy guys with girlfriends.
Whereas most us smart guys that are working hard are single.

Why do women like bad guys so much.

Traditional. Man works, the woman is a housewife/works a little but looks after the kids and cooks.

Can they even give consent, even if they say yes?