Why is it always bad guys with girlfriends?

Question

I always see drug dealers, and the scummy guys with girlfriends.  Whereas most us smart guys that are working hard are single.  Why do women like bad guys so much.

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

It has to do with challenge.

Not all of women are like this. But young guys usually notice young women particularly attractive young women aching like thi.

These pretty young girls are constantly being fawned over by everybody except “bad boys”. These guys have such egos that they don’t fold to these woman’s charms hence it make them “a challenge” and women are attracted to challenge/mystery.

Now of course this isn’t good for anybody. The girl will eventually get burned. The bad boy gets his ego further inflated. The nice guys get further disenchanted, jaded and confused. It also leaves leaves a negative impression on men knowing what women “say they want” and what they REALLY want are two different things.

But whine all you want but young women are never going to change. But there is one thing that can and NEEDS to change. Society needs to stop giving women a shoulder to cry on for their bad dating decisions. Especially western women

The absolute worst thing you can do is give a woman sympathy if she was burned by a “bad boy”. 9 out of 10 times she knew exactly what she was getting into it. The writing was on the wall but she thought she could “change” the bad boy. But when the inevitable (she gets burned) happens these women always find sympathy despite and rarely take accountability for their stupid decisions.

When an attractive woman complains to you about how past exes have treated her that is an immediate red flag. Don’t talk to her anymore after that. Ignore her. Move on. She isn’t attracted to you and is frankly doesn’t even see you as a real man in that scenario. She literally sees “nice guys” as other women they can dump their sob stories onto. Men got to stop enabling this crap.

I do realize men have been brainwashed to do other but it’s time to hold women accountable for their own bad decisions. They are not “powerless” of their emotions.

TommyMountainFigure · Accepted Answer

It depends on your definition of bad.

I was never a drug dealer, or beat anyone up (who didn't deserve it,) but I wouldn't think twice in jumping over tall railings with a pair of secateurs, in order to give a girlfriend some nice fresh flowers!

wiltingrosepetal · Accepted Answer

Danger is sexy. Most women will agree to that, and a lot of women will go for it. Danger means passion, excitement, adrenaline, and in a way it's an escape from reality.

However, while I grew up beside a guy who smokes, fixes cars, sleeps around, and has been arrested a couple times, my boyfriend is his cute himbo buddy who makes me laugh. Some women can see a red flag a mile away. Others want to ride the roller-coaster until they get thrown off

bobalife · Accepted Answer

Please don’t generalize this. Maybe you’re just after wrong women who goes for guys who does drug dealing and stuff?😅😂 like I know most great women I’ve met And know are not for that vibe… that’s a red flag😶 I would pass on it immediately too.

Rosexøxø · Answer

I suppose they are a demographic to put themselves out there or put their back handed words out there. That increases their chance and they’re full of lies and other loads of things.

You may see them with girls, but they don’t always keep girls.

mobiusforniner · Answer

That’s your perception. Either your idea of an attractive woman is a trashy tramp who goes after gang bangers or you are unable to develop and market yourself and rather blame society for your shortcomings.

Being from my experience, that most women don’t like gang bangers; I think it’s the latter.

SotiCoto · Answer

Women have idiots hitting on them and feeding them insincere flattery all the time. It makes the guys doing it come across as weak, needy, desperate, etc.
So when a guy treats her coldly, a lot of women respond to it positively because it makes him look stronger and less needy by comparison.

In fact I'm pretty sure the only reason I'm not a virgin is because I'm an arsehole, and apparently that makes some girls wet. Go figure.

DarkLegacy · Answer

It is because they are so toxic and immature these days. This is what they call having 'standards'. There is no standards in liking bad guys. This is one of the legacies of feminism and women paying to much attention to the crap they watch on TV especially American crap.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never seen this happen ever, not even once. Perhaps it is the dodgy company you keep.

Sandra_sia · Answer

Its totally depend on girl that what type of guys she like , there are many girls who like decent , hardworking men too and trust me a smart women would never go for trashy bad boys

sheikalana · Answer

Because they have game. They have the confidence and the sass. To be fair I don't know any drug dealers or scummy guys as you referred. But when I think of a bad boy I think more of a badass attitude.

Bunnynurse03 · Answer

I’m my experience I have found these guys to be respectful “the bad guys” as you put it the scummy ones yes they stay as scum. They will treat you how you allow to be treated. And the good guys? Found them to be bad guys deep down always shows. Most women not All also don’t want to be bored we want to be kept on our toes too. My thoughts

Daniela1982 · Answer

Because these clowns always have money to spend.

magiusX26 · Answer

saddly, women, especially those of today's era, are wired to crave drama. the type you described provide drama quite often. this is one of the bigger reasins women seek "the bad boy" as that drama is a form of excitement as in not mundanely boring.

DishLady · Answer

It’s not. They don’t necessarily make it to girlfriend/SO status. They may have a long line of girls INTERESTED, but that’s not the same thing.

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of young women like drama, excitement and danger. I've dated a few white girls that dated me to upset their parent by dating a black guy, if their parents had a problem and the more of a problem it is for them the happier they are.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Believe me, you don’t want women like that. Trust me. There’s a reason they go for those men and always end up in drama every time

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

Because bad boys aren't boring. You can be a good man and not boring and you'll have no problem finding a girlfriend

Boat4Fun · Answer

In my many years on this earth I've seen this. The keep the good guy in the friend zone, then he gets to watch it over and over. He should just wake away.

ceren27 · Answer

They love everyone equal but their loved ones first, they’re really bad as you see and know just to find what they want in life to provide for themselves,,, they understanding until you fucked up

AngryCarl · Answer

Yes, it's because crims are manipulators and some girls are easy to manipulate, if you know how to do it. If nice guys had "game" they could get girls too.

elaphe · Answer

Just because they have girlfriends doesn't mean those girls are quality. Maybe they also have no morals, character, or brains.

pinconon · Answer

neither bad guys or their girlfriends follow God

Kelly445566 · Answer

They love everyone equal but their loved ones first, they’re really bad as you see and know just to find what they want in life to provide for themselves,,, they understanding until you fucked up

handsomelad70 · Answer

Many chicks like bad dudes, to a certain age, anyway.

Dongie · Answer

Had to say no. But I'm talking 40 aged women. They learn.

OtterMan68 · Answer

Bad guys are often very confident and take charge

Jodity64 · Answer

Because women feel like they can change a mam to be better.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Or maybe you were looking at a wrong place?

Anonymous · Answer

You just like bad women and projecting that to every woman.😂

dustybiker2 · Answer

Temptation. They offer more, but at a cost.

molonski2 · Answer

Easy money bro , like moths to a flame.

Avicenna · Answer

Because they're confident

John_Cobretti · Answer

Getting treated bad turns on so many women

Logan2000 · Answer

because women like dominant men

jahaims · Answer

You watch too much tv

Anonymous · Answer

Nice guys finish last

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