I think it’s interesting listening to women talk about this… I’ve heard it before. “He made me believe… he brought me down..” lol no one can make you do anything. If you don’t like your situation you have the ability to leave. Some women will make the excuse that’s it’s not that easy. But it really is, you are just comfortable in your environment and the fact you can “fix” him. It’s all your decisions. Not him forcing you. If he has a gun to your head every second of the day that’s a different story, but if you are walking around and doing normal functioning stuff. All that other stuff is an excuse.
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Well for me it was fear,
My first boyfriend mentally abused and if it wasn't for my friends saving me, the abuse would have become physical. He made me believe that no one would love me but him. No guy would find me attractive and instead just use me for sex and leave me. Til this day I still don't know why I couldn't break up with him on my own. I guess I was just really weak.
As for drinking and smoking my ex was into that, it never bothered me because everyone in my family ( except my mom ) likes to drink and smoke, my friends was into it so I was totally okay with it. He didn't hurt me, didn't cheat, gave me compliments, protected me,, he just used me for my money and I didn't even know right away but surprisingly he broke up with me. I guess he had a heart and couldn't do it anymore.
Some know their relationships aren’t ideal, but they justify and rationalize their doubts away. Many of them would rather be in a poor relationship than no relationship at all
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Because they "love" him lol, even though there probably isn't much to love.
I think there's a few combined reasons, women like to "fix" guys and even though they can't (very rare), they love the challenge it seems. Plus those types aren't "boring", "good guys" are. That's why none of the "bad boys" are single and all the good ones are. What women REALLY want is a bad boy they can make good. But that doesn't happen. But they'll keep trying.I think girls who date guys like that don’t have the right input from their fathers. Could also be having bad social circle of friends. She could think being abused or mistreated is ok. I don’t get it personally.
this is hard to believe but some woman rather stay in that environment then go back onto the dating market and try all over again and it may be worse? Girls can worry A lot sometimes and stay in a relationship knowing damn well it’s horrible.I think it's physiology. It just subconsciously attracts us :)
I think that it is in a girl's nature to always look for a quote bad guy to some how correct or save. Me personally I just pass those girls over especially ones that have a " Tramp Stamp " LMAO
Because bad boys and assholes always gets the girls lol
Either she's being groomed by the guy or she's bad herself.
it's fun being with the bad ones, latter they turn to the one's they want to keep.
When you find out, let the rest of us know.
Just retardation.
Young, immature
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