Polls: Guy's Behavior

After class I got changed back into my normal clothes and sat out at the table waiting for my ride. I deliberately pulled my top down a little more than usual to show a bit more cleavage because a guy I have a crush on in my class was bound to walk around the corner any second. And he did. I acted casual just looking at my phone, he went between the two tables his back towards me then walked over and sat right next to me, despite there being a lot of other chairs. He sat there and sent a text to someone and looked at me and said it was a great service today ladies (there were a couple other girls on the other side of the table) I agreed then he said he's gotta cable car to catch. I just found it weird that he sat down. He usually gets dressed and leaves right away. Do you think that he sat down just to have a bit of a closer peek? I didn't see him looking directly at my cleavage but he would have seen it just looking at my face.

So this guy and I have had a thing for a while but its gotten to the point where I think he thinks that he can talk to me whenever he wants because he knows I'll always respond.. kind of like a booty call. I don't want that so I'm kind of backing away. He sent me a snapchat earlier today and then I opened it without replying, and then an hour later he sent me another snapchat that said "nice" on it, and then he chatted me and said "sorry wrong person". We've hooked up multiple times before so I know that he's into me in the physical way but I dont think he actually likes me in any other way. Could he have snapchatted me to see if I would respond? Or to make me jealous? Or did he actually send a picture to the wrong person? Anything helps!

So, he's extremely shy around girls and has never had experience with girls before.
He only hangs out with his group of guy friends. We talked for a month on chat, and he consistently replies and seems interested.

But shy guys, if u're really really shy with girls, would u act not interested pursposely? And why?

Now by the question, I mean does it bother guys when your girlfriend seems to be totally into some male celebrity Saying things like "He's so cute! I wanna marry him!" etc .

Now personally, if I'm gonna fan girl over a celebrity, I do it with my female friends, not the guys. And ESPECIALLY not a boyfriend. However I don't even really fangirl, like sure, there are a few that I'm like "I'm want to stay a virgin till marriage... but if HE appeared on my doorstep..."

But thats only with Eoin Macken... <3 the Gwaine love

ANYWAY, getting off subject

I don't say it in front of my boyfriend! However, I have seen girls openly say "Oh So and So is SOOO hot" or something of the sort right in front of their boyfriends and I'm like "uh... sure, do you like baseball?" I change the subject quickly lol.

And Guys can't do it vice versa, but if a girl says something he's expected not to care. Do y'all care at all?

Or would you take a thicker girl over a thin one if given the option?

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that period we never crossed the line, but we still flirted intensely. Before those periods though, he use to touch me. During and before, he complimented me all the time. A year ago, we got matched up in the same classes after a year of being apart. He had his girl, I had my guy. I never really crossed the line because I felt that was unfair to my boyfriend, but my friends with benefits told me once that he saw us being in a relationship. We smoked together sometimes, once he told me he was hoping we'd just be shit faced and have an affair with eachother. He brought up motions of us being together. And shit.

I feel like he did that because he had his girl, so he felt safe saying that stuff, you know? But that's just my theory.

So my boyfriend and I split in January. He and his girlfriend in February . Soon after we kissed, and gradually moved up to sleeping with eachother.

Now. He NEVER brings up the thought of us together. He seems so terrified just at the thought of us being together. I can jokingly call him "Babe" and just in an instant he'd be like, "Don't call me that". Like relax man, I was just joking. LOL. But he calls other girls pet names jokingly, and has noooo problem with that.

I mean like. To be honest, the feelings have always been there. But I'm leaving for a four-year university in September. I'm sure it wouldn't work anyway. And he's one of my closest friends, so why do it if I'm gonna' probably end up losing him? I'm not attached to him. Usually when I have feelings it's like an obsession, but it's not like that with him. I just feel comfortable with him and the idea of not dating him doesn't phase me.

I have my theories, share yours. I like to hear other opinions.

I'm going to go see him tomorrow. Now that we graduated and no one's in our busniess, he'll probably be up front with me.

He came into work. I saw him talk briefly to another female coworker. I got jealous. He looked into my office to say good morning. I said "I see you're busy this morning" in reference to talking to the other female. He said something. Then he just stood at the time clock (which is outside my door) and didn't say anything. I then ask him "what are you doing?" because he was just standing outside my door and not speaking to me. He just turned to look at me and glared angrily and didn't respond. It was a long glare and it freaked me out. I made it a point to be here because he seems to get upset when I'm not. What is going on with him?

So on Facebook
this guy who has a crush on me, asked my crush if he liked me. My crush doesn't know this guy very well but, tbh I don't like him.
anyway, my crush said he likes me as a friend only.
I don't get it...
my crush said he would hold my hands!
he wanted to go in a rollercoaster with me
he wanted to draw a picture of me and him
he said he would give me his jacket if we're cold
he teases me
and he flirts with me. He even asked what kinds of guys in interested in... Should I give up or what I'm so confused.

The boyfriend is going on a lads holiday soon and I can't help but worry immensely about what he will get up to when he's out there. Lads holiday to a place like magaluf, Malia, kavos etc is one of those holidays where people go to get pissed and get laid - he said it himself once. I know he's been on one of these holidays before and has been a bit of a man slag, as were all his friends, and he had booked this holiday before we were together. I have no reason to not trust him, and I've spoken to him about it and he's assured me he loves me and would never do such a thing but I can't help worry! Knowing what these places are known for and the fact that most of his friends going are single (except one guy but he's a prick anyway and i know he will probably cheat), makes me worry so much!! what to do and how to get this off my head I dont know, any suggestions? Sucks having a pessimistic nature.

So I've been talking with this guy for a couple weeks now and were both busy of course and don't always reply right away to texts etc but its going good. We aren't a couple or anything by the way right now. But what I realized is even if we don't talk much for a day, he always tells me what he's up to. If he doesn't respond for a few hours he'll say like, just got back from a game, work, went out or just what be did etc and that he's tired or he'll tell me like how the game went or whatever. I'm interested in him of course so I don't mind it at all, I think its nice that he tells me but I just wonder why he does that sometimes. Like yesterday we hardly got to talk and he texted me in the morning saying what he did and he was obviously busy from what he told me so I didn't mind but do you think he's doing it just to let me know that he's still like there for me/thinking of me? We have days where we talk a lot but some days he's just too busy like I said and he'll usually text me that night before he goes to bed even if he's about to fall asleep soon. What do you think? Thanks!

Last year I met him in one of my classes. I was the only person he'd go up to for Q&A's from on the classwork as well as asking me if we had a quiz or can I use your eraser. Simple things like that. But it was only to me. No one else. He hardly talks in any of his classes. I asked him to be in 3 projects with me and he said yes to all. He asked for my # due to we couldn't do it on the day I assigned to do it on. A month later I kind of texted him for a while but his replies were short and would text back an hr or more later. He never texted first. His friend in that class with me would tell me that the shy guy is ripped and things he'd tell him, Tell her you play hockey. He would say no, or put his head down/smile. When I talked to him, he replies differently than he does with other girls. He says a few words or nods his head. A few times when I'm near him he breathes a bit deeply. He's a bit nicer when his friends aren't near me.

Last summer I texted him a bit but it was again not very much he would say.

Senior year his friends mentioned me or giggle to him jokingly when I was around. The shy guy would say "I don't like her. She's weird or shut up." A girl that he barely knows went to him and asked about me. He said very quickly, I don't understand why so many people think that I like her. She's overreacting. 3 weeks ago I told him that I've liked him for a year. He was looking at his phone, had a small shyish smile. "Sure alright thanks... bye." Then left. The same day he texted me and said sorry about walking off earlier I'm pretty shy. I said why are you shy. He didn't text back. Then I said tbh when you left I thought you wanted to ignore me. He didn't text back. 4 days later I texted him the real reason I wanted to confess to him. It was about his friends teasing him about me and that I thought he knew. I also said if there's anything you want to tell me, I'm here. I also said sorry about asking why he's shy. He didn't text back.