He introduced his girlfriend and was trying to make me jealous. Wth?

[Anonymous]

I used to have a crush on him for a long time. IHe would try to impress me, flirt, got jealous and tried to make me jealous, always was near where I was, and try to make me feel weird and think he was cooler... One day he asked for me and when I looked he blushed and looked away.️I didn't believe anyone would want me so I ignored him. He and his brother went to my mom to find out more about me, where I was going to school, what classes I was taking.. it was weird. Then he left to go to school and now he has a girlfriend and they've been together for months. Oddly enough, he still can't look me in the eyes. Every time i walk into the room he stares at me until i catch him looking. He introduced my dad to his girlfriend and he stood very close to me. Then when he look at me for a reaction I gave him my f* you smile and he turned around and walked away with his girlfriend. Wth? I don't like him anymore, he's crazy. What is this guy thinking?

Yeah he's trying to make you jealous. Idiot

You are overreacting.

He still likes you and it bothers him that you dont care

He likes you and his gf- give him a break that's not easy

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Nobody else is going to help me.. :,(

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Thanks guys, i wanted to make sure I wasn't overreacting. He's being pretty immature but I wanted to make sure I wasn't making things bigger than they are

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I saw him a couple of days ago and his girlfriend wasn't there. He was staring at me from across the room. I like someone else a lot so im not worried about him. He's just creepy

[serious]

I really don't understand what he is doing, why is he trying to make you jealous. Making someone jealous is an immature behaviour, childish behaviour, and attention seeking behaviour no matter who does it, whether it's a guy or the girl it's immature. Fist of all trying to make you jealous is stupid of him and moreover he doesn't seem to understand that trying to make someone jealous will only work if they have feelings for that person , and it's clear you don't have any feelings for him, at least not now. I don't understand why would he waste his time and energy is trying to make you jealous?

Yes, he is trying to make you jealous and he is using another girl for this purpose, how immature is that!, he wants to see your reaction. Anyways just ignore him, continue doing that.

[Asker]

👏🏾 I could not have said it better. That's exactly how I feel.

[serious]

Meaning you feel like ignoring him, avoiding him altogether right?

[serious]

It would be a good decision if you feel like it.

[Asker]

Yeah that's how I feel, I avoid him ignore him. I do the best I can to stay away from the idiot

[JuicyBrain]

It's like he's trying to show you that he is worthy. A girl wanted him, so he must be worthy. He's trying to make you see what you could've had. He obviously still cares about you. He just never knew how to approach you or what to make of it, but he's acting like it was your fault. Just ignore him, stop seeing him. Disappear from his life.

[Asker]

I am as much as I can. I don't speak to him or anything. He's the one whose doing all of this

[JuicyBrain]

You might have to be a little hurtful if he insists...

[Asker]

Besides that All he does is stare and check me out

[JuicyBrain]

Well, I guess you can rejoice in knowing that you are attractive :-)

[Asker]

Idc if he finds me attractive.👀 I just want to be left alone

[JuicyBrain]

You might have to be very clear and vocal then...

[Asker]

Ok. If I catch him staring I'll say something. Ty

[Dhi99]

I was talking to this girl on the phone.
Suddenly she says she has a boyfriend.
I responded by saying I didn't ask for a date I asked for some information regarding work ( I don't work in the same industry as her but I was hoping to get a job from that industry. Previously she has given me some tips and when I asked for her number she gave me her number)
Somewhat surprised she said “what”
I repeated “ I didn't ask for a date, I asked for work related information ”
Although she had the information, she hands the phone to a guy. She gives the phone to a male, even without saying that she was handing the phone to someone. Is it to make me jealous?

[_feeeyaa_]

He's probably making you jealous or that he wants to see if you gave feelings for him after he got a girlfriend.

Most of the time, when you actually get a boyfriend or girlfriend, everyone literally opens up to you and tells you their feelings.

He wants to see if you are upset that he is taken, and he thinks his plan will work, once it's time, he might do something drastic to you with his girlfriend that will make you jealous.

It's all a setup, or that he's dating the girl, but she doesn't know, or he really likes you, but he has given up.

He might be giving up hope.

[Asker]

I think it's kinda immature of him to do that. Although I understand why he would, he's very goodlooking and smart, he's always had lots of girls tripping over him. He's not a player, our families grew up together and when I liked him I watched for that. So even though he's smart and very cute, I can't take an immature guy.

[Asker]

If that is all true though, I feel bad for the girl. No body deserves only part of someones heart.

[_feeeyaa_]

I can't believe he's just using a girl just to see your reaction.

Not a manly move I must say.

A real man doesn't do that.

There are many other men in this world, as there is 7.3 billion people in the world.

Just leave him alone. He shouldn't act like this.

[Asker]

I definitely will leave him alone, he's acting like he's in middle school.

[_feeeyaa_]

Haha true. In my middle school, kids at my school got married in the cafeteria. I know it's hard to believe but it's true!

[Asker]

😂 that's not legal.

[_feeeyaa_]

Our guidance counsellor gave us all 'the talk' about not marrying each other.