he told me he likes me more and isn’t attracted to her at all but is with her because he’s attatched to her as they lost a kid together, and he’s only with her to keep his family happy. he has been with her for three months till this date and he told me on our first date he hadn’t been intimate since December. Lie! he’s been saying he wanted a relationship with me, introducing me to his friends and showing PDA, and meeting me lots, but he has also been very manipulative and controlling and threatening even after only the first time I met him but I seen past all this as he is a really nice boy and we get along really well. he has been consistently saying he has feelings for me and calls and texts me a lot during the day.
but i found out about his girlfriend because she somehow found out about us and found out my name, after I confronted him his initial response was “fucking hell” then he called me, he spoken to me on the phone for an hour reassuring me that his feelings for me where never fake and he grown to like me more than expected. but when he realised I responded to her messages and was honest to the girl he got so mad and was really disrespectful towards me and was basically screaming at me. Telling me I ruined his relationship, I asked her if they where still together as he told me they split up and she told me it was none of my business and if i “have a brain” i should back off and stay away for good. I didn’t hear from him the entire day, and he was asking me to lie to her for him, which I stupidly did then blocked him everywhere, he called me from his friends phone asking why i blocked him and when I told him it’s because I don’t want drama and because she told me to stay away he got really mad and threatened me. I texted him apologising for blocking him out of the blue but still firmly let him know that we can’t continue this. I feel rubbish as I really liked him and had feelings for him. And I feel really played.
but i found out about his girlfriend because she somehow found out about us and found out my name, after I confronted him his initial response was “fucking hell” then he called me, he spoken to me on the phone for an hour reassuring me that his feelings for me where never fake and he grown to like me more than expected. but when he realised I responded to her messages and was honest to the girl he got so mad and was really disrespectful towards me and was basically screaming at me. Telling me I ruined his relationship, I asked her if they where still together as he told me they split up and she told me it was none of my business and if i “have a brain” i should back off and stay away for good. I didn’t hear from him the entire day, and he was asking me to lie to her for him, which I stupidly did then blocked him everywhere, he called me from his friends phone asking why i blocked him and when I told him it’s because I don’t want drama and because she told me to stay away he got really mad and threatened me. I texted him apologising for blocking him out of the blue but still firmly let him know that we can’t continue this. I feel rubbish as I really liked him and had feelings for him. And I feel really played.
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