Hiya, I want to let a guy know that I like him and have feelings for him.
I texted him yesterday and asked if he had time to meet in person this weekend because I want to share something with him.
He texted me this morning an said his weekend is a bit crammed and that he could see what he could do and get back to me.
I’m a bit worried he’s seeing someone else. After about a few weeks together I asked if we could be friends because I was worried he’d go back to his ex girlfriend and I didn’t want to get hurt.
He’d been quite distant since then, but the past week he’s been more responsive.
This past weekend I saw him at a group outing. He was very nice but when we were walking through the event side by side, every like 2 minutes he’d take a step back behind me and it seemed as if he was texting.
Should I open up to him to let him know how I feel? It’s a huge risk. Does it sound like he’s seeing someone else?
What Guys Said
So it can be that he is busy or he's buying time. Anyways your move with lets be friends was stupid. Now he thinks there is no chance.
Life is full with risks and if he don't like you so be it. Try, if not move on.
I agree, it was dumb.
The reason I asked him to be friends is because all we were doing was making out. We had insane physical chemistry.
Thats not being friends! You're already a bunch of steps into a relationship. Which kind is unknown but maybe he is avoiding u bc it was not good
But the relationship started out sexual. I felt like that’s all we did. I saw him over the weekend at a group event for the first time in a month. He kept asking why I was out of town, who I was with, where did I go, etc.
Could this be a sign that he likes me? Or is he just controlling and territorial?
If you like someone and want him to yourself wouldn't u ask the same?
We can get attached to after a physical contact.
So I asked him if we could meet in person this weekend on Sunday, as I am only free for two hours that day. He said he’d check his availability because his weekend is crammed. He text me back saying he couldn’t meet that time and didn’t suggest another time to meet. I’m taking that as, he’s not interested. He did ask me a follow up question to our previous text about my short story I’m writing, but I think it’s done.
Yes. Good analyzed. If he would have interest he would offer another day/time. He does not invest.
Done, next
He's not interested
Thank you for your reply. We saw each other at an event on Saturday and he texted me the next day saying how good it was to see me and so on. We’ve been texting back and forth all week but he can’t meet at the specified time. So, I’m done with him and need to try and move on.