So I’ve recently started seeing a guy who told me he’s friends with his ex’s. At first I didn’t think much of it, I’m not usually the jealous type and thought it was nice to know his relationships had ended nicely and with no hostility. However, he had mentioned that his last relationship ended as his girlfriend at the time had been meeting with other men behind his back. He seems to still feel betrayed by her while still being her friend.
I again didn’t think into it but he brought her up a few times during the two dates we went on, he still has posts up of her and the whole week he has been away on Mexico for work, where she lives and is spending time with her but hasn’t even bothered to reply to me in a week.
I sort of have a feeling that he’s still hung up on her, and that he probably would still want be with her but can’t be since she disrespected their relationship before. I honestly didn’t mind since I don’t get that vibe with his other ex but the fact he has been putting more energy in to her this week then into continuing to get to know me has indicated where his heads at.
I’ve actually already ended things with him over it last night. He read the message within minutes but never even replied. I guess I’m looking for reassurance that I made the right call and that I haven’t jumped to the worst conclusion without reason. I dunno, the last time I saw him we also slept together and I guess I expect to be treated with a bit more care and respect after that since he knows it’s a big deal for me, I don’t have casual sex. And for all I know they’re probably sleeping together, and when I think about the future man I want to see myself with it’s not someone who would carry himself like that or treat me like that. I tried to be understanding that maybe he’s just busy with work but he seems to have time for her, and I only know this because she posted him, he didn’t post her which I feel like is even shadier as he might not want me to know he’d been with her.
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Well..."guy you were seeing regularly", sound like You're all Mixed/Messed up.
As seing regularly is "a fb, friends with benefits"etc...
And being upset because he is with Her, and having all these feelings that "you've been played" sounds like you Developed feelings for him.
So which one is it, in the end?
Your mini relationship sounds like a cabbage...🤦♂️, don't know where it starts, don't know where it ends..
Good couse you ditched him, as i'm sure you just been "played" so just leave him Be and You move Forward, no point in to clinging on to the Past.
As you said that he seen your messages, and never replied, or that He's gone to His Ex, that should have been Red Flags right there... i never keep close, details, traces, etc, etc with my X's, that's why there is EX, is part of the past, as it will bring "memories" that either i don't want to remember them, or "too good memories" that it will male me go back, and "regret after" as it will become a more Toxic Relationship, she would take Advantage of my "weakness" for her... so... Fuck it! Just keep movin...🤷♂️
Thanks for your answer. I don’t think I’ve developed feelings for him. I’ve been dating him, so it’s not super serious and I know that. But I have become attached to him I won’t lie. You get used to talking to people and having them there, so I won’t lie, I definitely formed an attachment, but it’s not love or anything deep. I don’t think though my “cabbage” relationship is something that needed to be defined. It was someone I was getting to know but of course seeing him with his ex I was put off because although there’s no relationship yet I want to be careful not to start one that isn’t good for me or healthy. But I’ll take your advice and just keep moving. I had already made my mind up I guess since I had ended it already but I think I just wanted to make sure I didn’t jump the gun and assume something I shouldn’t have
Nah, nah, nah... You Made well as you moving forward, trust me, i'm sure there is Someone Out There, just for You when you'll be Ready to Settle down, so just Relax and Enjoy the ride... think this way ( 😉 ) ... NEXT!!! 😁 Good luck out there. 👍