I slept with my friend's girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

A couple of weeks ago me and my friend went to visit his girlfriend for her birthday. I have had feelings for this girl for a long time and have never told her. Any way my friend had forgotten his present for her she he went back to get. His girlfriend went upstairs to get ready to go out and left me downstairs thinking about the situation. I decided I should tell her how I felt. She told me she had felt the same and we started kissing. One thing led to another and we had sex. We have been seeing each other behind my friends back ever since. What should I do?

[Woman2005]

You are GROSS...I can't believe you actually posted this. I hope you are just creating a story. Where is your conscience. You took GROSS to a NEW LEVEL. You are a loser and I feel bad for your poor friend. You have just ruined your friend. As soon as he finds out and he WILL you will have taken more from him then his girl. You stole his ability to trust and have faith. You owe it to him to tell him and then disappear. You are not a good friend. You need to see a therapist...your poor friend. BTW this girl (cause a woman doesn't behave this way) you will never be happy with her. You just destroyed everything out of selfishness. You will always live with a guilty conscience. When people ask you how you met it will be a constant reminder that your relationship is a disgrace...Hope you get help and change your bad ways. Feel so sorry for your friend who is the innocent VICTIM and will suffer from the stupidity of two selfish individuals who lacked self control.

[caligurl101]

I know right...people these days have no respect for others as long as they get what they want...SMH

[iUnderachieve]

your response is a little overboard..i understand constructive criticism but sheesh..obviously he feels terrible and shitty. Do you feel the need to add to that? all he wants is help, if anything just kind of seems like your kicking a man while he is down. People act on impulse it happens, i would expect more but then again we weren't there. We don't know anything about any of these people. and dude if you truly want to live at peace with yourself come clean, keep your distance for a while. maybe show your respect and keep it permanently if he is forgiving he will come back around; if not you must deal with the consequences. Life goes on, but don't let this keep you in a never ending loophole torment get pass it and man up. come clean i guess but what do i know; i'm just a kid. take it easy.

[leluxe]

Im in no place to judge you, after all , how can anyone control who their heart feels for. What I do think is you have to come to terms of the situation, there can only be one, you have to make the decision: the girl or your friend. Once you decide, let the other one know. Give them a thorough explanation. Give that person the right to be upset and sad. Let them express that anger if it arises. Sit there in silence. When things calm down walk away.

[sailaway]

Firstly, you should tell him the truth. To be honest I don't think his feelings really matter to you so it shouldn't matter that he might not want to see your face. :) If he manages to forgive you then you are very lucky and you should learn to respect your friends a bit more.

[Davidd902]

If you care at all for your friend you will end it. if he does or doesn't find out it doesn't matter, it is wrong, I know you like her but he is your friend, you should of tried to stay away from her, over time you might lose the feelings for her.

[summiter]

Dude...that is a low blow to your friend, who by the way won't be your friend after he finds out. I think you and your new girlfriend need to jointly tell him and stop screwing around behind his back.

[kangaru]

U should stop contacting her..this is going to cause a stain on your friendship with her boyfriend and her rs with him. I felt sad for him he is going to get hurt. Never hurt an innocent party due to one desire.

[Jade4]

Uh apologise and duck and stay away from this girl who thinks cheating is fine . Very poor behaviour from both of you and karma exists

[Anonymous]

Wow what a great friend you are .

Smile in your face all the time trying to take your place backstabbers backstabbers .

[MaidenInKorea]

Break it off, tell the truth, and deal with the consequences.

[Anonymous]

You and your friends girlfriend stabbed your friend in the back. Not something I would do.

[Anonymous]

You're not a good person.

[Anonymous]

Have fun. :)

[Asker]

So you're saying that we should keep seeing each other and not tell him?

[Opinion Owner]

If you want.