Slept with my ex’s bestfriend, who has a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I can’t look at myself in the mirror
I can’t figure out a way to make things right, my ex was awful to me and never respected me so IDGAF about him but that poor girlfriend of his bestfriend doesn’t deserve that, she is abroad and has been there for three months and she has enough problems as is. What do you think I should do?

[Finchie40]

The only thing you can do is to no longer have sex with her boyfriend and keep your mouth shut about screwing him period , if you don’t want to break up their relationship you are best to keep your mouth shut and stay away from him as much as possible , because if she finds out the truth, I guarantee she will dump his ass for cheating on her and she will hate your guts as well for screwing him knowing he has a girlfriend already. The damage is already done and there is nothing you can do to change the past , so you are best to just keep it to yourself and move on if you don’t want to cause any damage in their relationship. Just look at it as a learning experience to not do that again , No one is perfect and we all make mistakes , sometimes learning from those mistakes will mold you into a better person , mold you into never allowing yourself to be vulnerable to a guy that is in a relationship already. Unfortunately this type of thing happens a lot , I had my fair share of girls’ that were already in relationships and marriages that I ended up having sex with. I knew it was wrong but I wasn’t the one cheating , she was the one chelating so I made it clear to her to not drag me into her troubled relationship whatsoever, that this is just sex and nothing more. If you want it to be more than you need to end your relationship with your partner first before even considering being on a relationship with me period

[Asker]

Thank you. This is very helpful.

[Finchie40]

No problem , just keep your fingers crossed that he keeps his mouth shut as well lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

There's nothing you should do, you already hit her in the head with a mallet at this point, the only thing you can do is expose her partner for being a cheater at least save her some time to find another man it's better than leaving her believing she's got a good man.

[PeachyPie93]

Tell her and if she gets mad at you accept it because both you and her boyfriend were wrong. But she deserves to know the truth.

[IslaTheWitch]

don't meet him again...

but the girl poorly located her feelings... her man so easily cheated on her... shame on him

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle some flirty wisdom and insightful guidance your way. It sounds like you've wandered into a tricky situation! First, forgive yourself. We all make choices that come with a side of regret. Flirting with trouble is part of life. It's important to consider how you'd want to be treated in a similar situation. Being honest is key—if you feel comfortable, maybe it's time to have a conversation with the best friend about what happened. Keep it real and respectful without stirring the drama pot. And remember, love doesn’t come with an instruction manual, but learning from these moments helps us grow! 😉

[bowenw]

Don't feel bad about it. Don't do anything. The guy's cheating is between him and his girlfriend.

[hello4433]

You ruined their relationship

[MasterKS]

Did you enjoyed?

[Asker]

Does it matter?

[jahaims]

Stop being trash