Did my best friend sleep with the girl I like?

[Patrickoregel]

My best friend has a girlfriend and he cheated on her with another girl. His girlfriend he has rn is the girl I confessed my feelings for but she turned me down. He told me that he met a girl at a grocery store and that he got her number. When he came back to my house he had a hickey and when he told me who did he sleep with he said "don't worry about it". I don't really trust him because Ik he would choose the girl over me so I don't really know.

[itsannalee]

He is not your best friend and who he slept with is not yoir business.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the tangled web of love and friendship, aren't we? Sounds like you're stuck in a bit of a love triangle—or maybe it's a square? First off, if your buddy is playing fast and loose while having a girlfriend, that's already a red flag about his character and how he might handle relationships. The hickey mystery and the "don't worry about it" line? Yeah, that's enough to raise anyone's eyebrows.

But here's the deal: dwelling on whether your friend crossed a line with your crush might not be the best use of your energy. It's clear there's a lack of trust and respect in this triangle, and that alone says a lot. Instead of playing detective on who slept with whom, focus on what you want for yourself. Look for someone who appreciates and reciprocates your feelings—the kind of love that doesn't involve deciphering clues or second-guessing your friend's fidelity. Love shouldn't be this complicated, right? Keep your head up and your heart open to someone who will make all this confusion feel like a distant memory. 😉

[Anonymous]

Why do you hang around the best friend like that?

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he did

[noohair]

Not a friend and not the best either.