My girlfriend found out that I had sex with a friend of hers before we met?

[Anonymous]

Before I met my girlfriend I had a brief sexual relationship with a friend of hers. We never told her, because neither me nor that girl considered it important, but my girlfriend found out somehow. Lately she started acting weird, she doesn't want to speak to her friend anymore and she is very annoyed by my presence. Last night she seemed very depressed and told me that she would leave me if I wanted to, so to set me free to date "that hoe" again, telling me that she would never date a guy if she had previously had sex with a friend of him, from "pure respect". I don't know what to do, because I cannot change the past but seems that she is very molested by this one.

[DermalPunch]

She's very insecure. She may also feel jealous of this friend or jealous of qualities this friend has. It is of course irrational and it doesn't sound like you have any interest in the friend.

She clearly likes you a lot. If you also care about her, look past the crazy and recognize that she wants the relationship. This tantrum is to be ready to lose you in the hopes it won't hurt so much when you go.

I can be insecure like this. The person said to me that I was hurting us both by acting this way.

She needs a lot of reassurance that it is the past.

[Asker]

I feel the same, that she is insecure. However, I've started to empathize with her, because to be honest she was seeing her friend almost every week and they spoke daily and we both were acting like we didn't know each other well until my girlfriend "introduced us". This morning, my girlfriend told me that at the beggining, when we had started dating, she called her friend to talk to her about me and the latter told her something like "oh, sounds like he's a cool guy", when she actually knew me very well.. I believe it hurted her a lot. I've tried to walk in her shoes and I believe I would be very hurt too if the opposite had happened

[Thepumpkinhead]

That's out of her concern that you had sex with her friend way BEFORE you dated her.

Although it will hunt her for years if you will continue to date.

It just feels disgusting to eat a dick that your FRIEND ate.

[Guy13]

If you feel like it... Context-what did she do when discovered? How did she find out? How serious were you too?

[Shamalien]

Bruh…have a conscience. You slept with her friend and you don’t think she’d wanna know this?

[DermalPunch]

If I had boned a guy's friend in the past before I knew him and it was over I wouldn't say a word. Why?

[Anonymous]

Ooops, that's not good.