Polls: Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend said his ex attacked him

His mom used to hit him, he was beaten by bullies and got into lots of fights

I've never been in fights... i dont know how to fight.. I've never slapped anyone or hit anyone

I dont have a slap or hitting as a responce to something

He thinks its normal to be slapped? he lived 20 years with her... how is it posible? how this can be explained?

Im confused and shocked when he tells me all the posible ways she attacked him with totally normal face as its smth normal

Apparently, it comes from Tik Tok (I personally don't use this social media but this time I feel like they are onto something).

Red Nail Theory means that: "Men are especially attracted to women wearing red nail polish, and that attraction exists because men remember seeing their mothers and teachers wear red nail polish when they were children"

Do you agree with it?

I personally think that if a guy approaches you or comments on your red nails it's because red is simply a gorgeous rich color and a color of passion, sex. That's why many men like red lipstick on women and/or red dress, red anything.

boyfriend and I been together 4 years. Good guy a honest one from what I’ve known. He’s not big on social media and Instagram caused some problems so he’s off of it for a year or two now. Anyways he watches YouTube shorts so I noticed on his phone he had tik tok downloaded, but wasn’t logged in it was at the main screen for when you first open the app. I asked him about it and he said he downloaded it and said it was the same and said whatever. I said you had it before and he said no I didn’t, (I think he had it years ago but I don’t remember clearly) anyways yeah is that weird?

So For an ice breaker about how I’ll act in zombie apocalypse, I answered that I’ll fight and not run away and that’s because I come from a warrior clan of my home country.

To this, someone on my team said that “it’s in her blood - fighting”

As an over thinker that I am, I am wondering if there was something wrong with my answer. Or was I just being made fun of coz I’m the youngest on the team.

any insights will be helpful

This happened to me during my working day today. Still trying to process 😂😂😬😵‍💫

boyfriend of four years for as long as we been together always took his phone with him to the bathroom and slept with it. I always thought it meant he was hiding something but for four years he always let me go through it whenever, he gets annoyed but lets me. Even when I’m not around he sleeps with it and takes it to the bathroom. I know it sounds weird but I haven’t known him to be unfaithful this far in our relationship. Is this odd?

So 1,5 year ago I rejected a guy because of the situation and started dating someone else who fit my life that time. This year we talked then we went on a date again because my situation changed, but he was really upset when I told him about the other guy, that I hurt his pride and he rejected me, he didn’t even want to understand the circumstances.
Was it about him or about me? If you were really really attracted to a girl, would you still reject him because of this? Or would he give a chance if I were a 10/10 girl? Is it a ‘he is not that into you’ situation or a pride situation?

If a guy in his early 30s met a woman who is 40 and had immense compatibility and match, would he be ok with the age difference for long term relationship/marriage?