He has to be cheating on me since he’s been working late?

[Anonymous]

I’m so angry right now it’s hard to type. My boyfriend of 4 years has been working late THREE FUCKING NIGHTS IN A ROW I’m talking about 7 am to fucking 9 pm okay. He barely ever works those hours now all of a fucking sudden he’s doing those hours 3 fucking days. I call him and he usually answers and says “ I’m at work call you almost done love you bye” I CALLED HIM 5 FUCKING TIMES AND NO ANSWER. I called him at 8:01, 8:48, 9:01 9:06 9:17 until he calls me back at 9:26 and says sorry I missed all your calls I’m on my way home I was dumping my truck out. I SAID WHY TF ARE YOU WORKING SO LATE NOW? He says we are short guys and have big projects im like bull fucking shit and I hang up on him too angry to speak. He has to be cheating right? Why wouldn’t he answer after I called and texted. Before any of you fucking ask he hasn’t cheated on me from what I know but come the fuck on

He’s cheating

Your tripping back off

[ilovelamp]

SOunds like he works in construction. In which case if one is unloading a trailer it's normal to leave your phone in the vehicle so it doesn't get smashed or ruined...

[Asker]

He’s a solar installer, which is him working on the roof all day. He took an hour and 20 mins to call back

[ilovelamp]

I'd be worried about dropping the phone off the roof too, if it fell out of the pocket and off of a roof, it would be destroyed. Are there any other signs than just working late?
Also, if money has been tight does putting in more time to make more money make sense?

[Asker]

He mentioned wanting to save up since we are trying to move in together in a year. Also his boss went on vacation this week along with someone getting sick so I’m hoping that is it. He called me and he knew I was upset so he was like I love you and trying to talk but I was so upset he missed my calls

[ilovelamp]

I don't think him being late is problem then since all the evidence is pointing toward working late being justified. (More hours to earn more money, people being out sick so they put more work on those who aren't, etc)

[humanearth]

Your mind is running wild.

Are you cheating on him

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Working late usually is just working late. If you don't trust him enough to work late, then you should just break up with him.

[Anonymous]

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