If you are average height (5"8) is it necessary to work out in order for girls to like you?

[Anonymous]

I am 5"8 and I am quite thin and as a result I haven't had much luck with girls. Is it necessary to have an athletic body in order for girls to like you?
Is it necessary to look really muscular in order to get a girlfriend these days? It seems like two things from what I have observed in the last year. Height and having a muscular physique.

[YoungFitOne]

well im like 5'6-7ish, been working out for 2 years. It helps a lot with your confidence about yourself. Girls are just a PERK. I know plenty of lame dudes with hot chicks. I've sheen plenty dudes shorter than me with hot chicks. And they looked mehh, themselves. So if your insecure, then that is what is causing you troubles with women. Because when you see a hot chick walking by, you don't feel "worthy" enough to talk to her because you assume she is talking to other guys etc who are probably "better" than you etc. And this insecurity is hard to get rid off. Working out can definitely help a ton in that you increase your self-efficacy. I get lots of stares from women, but im so busy with school and working out and stuff that I dont even have time lol.

[Anonymous]

"is it necessary to work out in order for girls to like you?"
No.

"Is it necessary to have an athletic body in order for girls to like you?"

No.

"Is it necessary to look really muscular in order to get a girlfriend these days?"

No.

Save yourself some time and effort. Have a search on this website for guys who were in your position last year, spent 12 months trying to bulk up at the gym, did it, and found it made exactly fuck all difference to their success with the ladies.

The thing you need to change, is in your mind.

[Asker]

I haven't noticed that. Where have you seen that being the case?

[binny91]

Thats a lie don't believe him.

[Opinion Owner]

@binny91 - Why would I lie? What have I got to gain by it?

Just because you're bitter, because people tell you that you're obsessed with the wrong things...

@Asker - Come on, I told you to use the Search. Either you'll do it, or you won't, but don't be so lazy that someone else has to do the work for you.

[Asker]

No, I just didn't really know how to work this website.

[snowangle]

Not at all necessary! This guy I've been crazy about for nearly 2 years is 5'8" (possibly even shorter) and he's got a really thin build. He's even been getting a bit of a beer belly haha. But his height and his physique are the least of my worries. They're not the reason I like him.

[Dzindzer]

5'8 is fine at least for me I am 5'2. You don't have to be very muscular, but just not too thin or fat. As longs as you look like you take care if yourself you will be fine.

[BertMacklinFBI]

not necessary but it is a SUPER BONUS.

[Nightingale]

If watching this reporter doesn't inspire you to grab the weights I don't know what will. You certainly don't need to have the body of this guy, but you get the idea.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WhQ-AEZovE

[Asker]

Isn't she just trying not to cry?

[Nightingale]

dude.. you need to start paying more attention to body language.

[Asker]

I am but apart from biting her lips I can't see much more in it. What else is she doing?

[Nightingale]

Like every inch of her body? look at her hands.

[front2back]

Athletic physique helps a lot, but height isn't as important as you might think. Confidence and sparking interest in a girl is most important. A girl isn't going to give much a damn about your height if you can make her condensate.

[Asker]

What do you mean by condensate?

[front2back]

I mean get her wet. Condensation. It's just a less direct way of saying it.

[abra_b]

Working out is a good idea, regardlessly. It boosts your flow of testosterone and improves your immune system. Work out to be healthy and happy!

[JellyBeans77]

yes i love guys with abs and a toned body no matter what their height is. it just increases their hotness, i hope u get what i mean :)

[poppunk]

I like mostly skinny with just the beginnings of abs or biceps, but thats just me.
I really don't care about height since im 5'2

[MissMcK]

Honestly, I like skinny, muscular and even some chub. As long as it's not an unhealthy type it's fine with me.

[knotme]

Its not necessary, but it could depend on how skinny you are

[Asker]

Well I only weigh 124 pounds, do you think that could be a factor?

[knotme]

What's your frame, small, medium,?

[Asker]

According to a website which talks about body frame wrist size I have a small frame as my wrist is almost 6 inches.

[Asker]

I am an ectomorph.

[knotme]

That could look fine on you, but hard to say without a picture.. If you think it might be better go for it, but it might be necessary.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

It's very likely you'll need to work out to attract the most women.

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'5 and I weigh 120 lbs and I attract women. In fact I find I attract women when I'm not trying to attract them.

[Mesonfielde]

Nope, not as far as I know.