What is the ideal weight for a girlfriend?

[daisydaisy]

I get very self conscious when I'm in relationships where I weigh more than my boyfriend.

Do boys ever think about that?
Do boys like girls to be very skinny?
Or is it better to be slightly thick?

[srslyly]

We're all different, but we generally prefer smaller ladies. That means that you will have the most options if you're fairly small. That doesn't mean you'll have better options. Even large women can attract a man, because some men like large women. Unfortunately, the size and shape of women's bodies is very important to men, as it is most of what makes our dicks get hard. It would be better for men and women if guys could pay more attention to whether a woman's weight fluctuates a lot vs. whether she's more stable. Constant, extreme fluctuations in weight can be a sign that a woman lives an uneven lifestyle, and may not be a suitable partner.

[BatDoc]

This is a relative question. Some guys prefer girls to be bigger or curvy. Some guys like skinny girls.

But the real answer to what is the ideal weight is what looks good on you and what you are comfortable with. Make sure you feel happy and comfortable first. Then find a guy who likes you for who you are, not some crazy ideal that he has in his head.

[MaskofInsanity]

Most guys have no idea how much a girl weighs lol.

I'm 5'10" and 150 lbs. My bf asked my weight and I told him, he just gave a grunt and shrug. Lol

[joe_soapus]

Guys really don't think like that. Really. They find you attractive or they don't. And keep in mind that there's a whole spectrum of preferences. Some guys prefer skinny girls, some prefer thicker girls. The only rule is that the guy probably has absolutely no idea what you weigh! So the concept of an "ideal weight" just doesn't exist

[UPENDRA123]

Slightly thick is very fine but too fat can be annoying. whats your weight?

[Anonymous]

I'd mostly prefer a female who weighs less than me, unless she's taller than me. Not saying it's a deal-breaker, but it's definitely a consideration.

[BlackLeon]

it's up to her height... if looking is proportional, don't care...

[Anonymous]

I've heard that women don't want to be heavier than their man... it makes them feel, not girly

[daisydaisy]

It's not so much that I don't feel girly, it just makes me personally feel self conscious.

[Opinion Owner]

Why?

[daisydaisy]

I guess I don't want my fat in the way lol

[Opinion Owner]

How would that get in the way... I don't see you as fat anyway

[SaltandVinegar]

I dont know or care as long as she looks good, I like thicker girls

[RightNow]

130 lbs is perfect for a girl who is 5'8.