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Typically, guys don't like being less muscular than the girls they're with... So you'll find fit guys will prefer your body, while fatter/skinnier unfit guys will incorrectly compare themselves to you, rather than your body to health&beauty (not always true of course, and hopefully society will develop a healthier perspective towards beauty over time). However, most fit guys like fit girls. I fall in the same category. But I go a little further than the norm (Zuzka Light is my ideal-- don't be intimidated she is extremely feminine when not flexing). I like the lighting better in the second picture-- the shadows highlight your definition, makes you look stronger and sexier.
So yes, many of the guys you'll go for like girls this fit (e. g. athletic men). And yes, I would like it if a girl had stronger abs than that. It's not like you'd be flexing all the time, this is just a picture e. g. Zuzka looks incredibly strong when she flexes, but very feminine in motion (not a still picture).
By the way if you're looking to build legs, Zuzka has amazing legs. You might want to try some of her workouts.
Yeah that's a good point.. I can understand that! Although I don't just typically go for more athletic men. If he's got a nice personality and is (let's be honest it) decent looking, then I don't care if he's got muscle or not, it'd probably be more him caring
Thanks heaps for the link!! That'll be helpful :)
The most important aesthetic of the human body is the face, so I know what you mean. I'm just saying, assuming personality and what your face looks like is 100% random between fit and non-fit guys.. you'll likely tend to lean towards guys fitter than most girls would, while fit guys will tend to lean towards you more than unfit guys would. Typically, as you get fitter the extremes you'll accept change-- your standards for what is just not acceptable in terms of too much muscle broaden and what you think is grossly out of shape becomes slimmer (or more beefy for rail thin no muscle types). This is nothing new and it's a reoccurring tendency across many traits... e. g. the more intelligent you are, the less ignorance you'll accept; the more career oriented, the less you'll accept unstable workers; the more invested in charity and the community, the less likely you'll be with a drug dealer.
Hm while I do agree, I have never been with an overly fit guy (one that even works out), but yes you're right, thanks heaps for your comments. Very helpful :)
No, thank you. Pursuing fitness is a gift that gives-- your physique will hopefully inspire those around you to pursue better bodies for themselves and contributes to a healthier image for the human body world-wide. Keep up the good work and don't stop here.
It would be cool to inspire those around me, but for now even if I can't do that, I feel better about myself then I did 5 months ago, and that keeps me going (:
Also. Just had a chance to look at the video you linked now, and yeah I'll agree that Zuzka has a great body and I wouldn't mind reaching that point someday.
I generally don't care about women's bodies, but damn. Your stomach, and your hips in those hip-hugger shorts, is enough to get me to be a sex slave for you, face-down so you would only see the top of my head for hours straight - every day. Literally... hours. I've done it, (and I like it. A lot. Like A LOT, a lot). But never to a girl as sexy as you! Damn! You legs, too. God. your body is so amazing I can't even jerk off to it. You must have put a lot of time and effort into that figure. I know, I used to be a personal trainer, and you must have been a very dedicated woman. God, those hip are delicious. I'd take a beating for half my life just to down on a girl with a body like yours. I've been with some really hot girls (probably because of the uniform), buy never THAT hot. I want to put your pics as my laptop's wallpaper.
Oh.. urmm.. haha how to reply to that. Well, thank you, I appreciate your enthusiasm, guess that made me feel pretty good about my body haha! So thanks!
Would you find it gross or complimentary if I Used one of those pics? Not that I am right now, but they did get me excited. Really, your THAT hot.
Um... hahahah I don't know!
Well I don't want to if you don't want me to. That wouldn't be right, and it would be pervy. But that is the sexiest body I've seen on this site, and that's the truth. Here, I'll change my profile pic, maybe that'll help you think its OK.
I can't take it anymore. I put your two pics side by side, and I just gotta do it. Your body is so amazing. A 10, a fucking 10! I can't even see your tits or your ass and you still got me harded than I've been in a while. That's impressive. So I hope from now on you know how unbelievable you are. I am sooo jealous of the guy who gets to go down on you! Damn, Honey. Damn!
Wow to be honest I have no clue what to say, whether I'm complimented or feeling extremely.. Extremely awkward.. But thanks, good to know...
I think you look beautiful. I saw some of the guys commenting that you should gain weight, not work out too much etc.. don't listen to those comments. I think your body looks amazing. The most important thing is how you feel about yourself and if you're happy with the way you look, then that's the main thing!
Thank you I appreciate it! I don't think I should gain weight or anything, I wouldn't be comfortable with myself if I did, so glad you understand !
I've had guys tell me they love my abs... and I've had others complain that "it feel like I'm laying on a dude".
I think it depends haha.
(FYI I am not like that crazy picture posted in the comments... I'm just muscular.)
I guess it's personal preference hey
Oh hey girl I know who you are! :D
I think what you have is fine! :)
Some girls have better abs than guys and I find that OMG! :O
(Others don't ask me who she is, either) lol
Haha awks :P
Thank you though :)
Haha how do you know?
:)
Oh! HAHA funny
I remember now :')
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those pictures are borderline for me. A woman is incredible because she is soft. Most guys don't want anything that is going to make them think of a guy. washboard abs will certainly do that. of course with a body like yours nobody is going to mistake you for a guy. But frankly the kind of guys that are into your look are probably the kind of guys your looking for anyway. I like women with some meat on thier bones. i want women with curves. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I am not someone a women like you would look twice at so it really doesn't make a difference what my opinion is.
For starters, you make some valid points. Secondly, making an assumption on the type of guys you 'think' I'd go for is kind of unnecessary, as you really have no idea what I go for, to be honest I don't really have a 'type' as long as he is nice, honest and loyal.
Thirdly, you're over 35, I am 18. Therefore that would be the reason I wouldn't take a second glance.
Fourth, thank you for your opinion, it does matter (:
I didn't look at your age when I left the message. I was not commenting on it from an age aspect. Whether you look like you do when I was that age, or you look like that at my age, those kind of women are part of the "pretty people" of the world. They do not look twice at us "normal" folk. You can see pic's of me on POF. com userid Godfatherfan33
It's offensive that you make that generalised assumption.
if that is offensive someone really did a poor job of raising you. There should be nothing that anyone can say to you to offend you. and what could possibly be offensive? that really hot women are not going to give an average guy the time of day? yeah.. that is a real stretch there. you can try and tell yourself what you want but many generalizations are that way because they are true more then they aren't. there are always exceptions to the rule but not often. and your certainly not worth any more effort. Your looking to show off and try to get guys to give you compliments. that is more evidence of just a high maint woman. You should try a regular guy, we aren't shallow and we know how to treat women with respect and like gentlemen.
Too bad if I wasn't raised very well, because that's insensitive. And you may think that I wouldn't give you a time of day because you're "average" but it's actually your attitude... Sorry to say. I've been with about 4 guys, only one of them had muscle, and one of them was a head turner. But funnily enough both of them were jerks! Which is why I DONT go for those time of guys in particular. Get your facts before you go making accusations about people. I posted this for opinions for the question, and maybe for a bit of a confidence boost, but who cares! It's the only thing I'm happy with about myself so why can't I embrace it? Go sort out your own life and attitude.
Depends.
This is not attractive (and I see women like this at my gym):
www.bennadel.com/.../..._with_crazy_abs_biceps.jpg
This is alright:
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Agreed
You are incredibly beautiful. Train as much as you like: I'm attracted to girls who feel confident (and happy) about themselves and their bodies, whether toned or not. If it makes you happy to work out a more, work out more. If you rather want to tune it down a little, tune it down a little. Just keep it natural and don't take steroids. They will ruin all proportions and more.
Thank you. It's good that you consider the girls feelings, I admire that :) thanks for the comment
the abs you have are perfectly fine! Its a matter of when the girl starts having better abs than me when it becomes a turn off, like this:
images.t-nation.com/.../...4419385065.bp3.032b.jpg
Yeah, that almost looks gross..
"almost"? That's dude in a wig. And if not, then yes. It is most certainly disgusting.
Haha okay I was just not trying to be offensive to whoever it is but yeah it's gross
I'm a gym freak and i'm pretty muscular myself... As a gym freak, I wouldn't mind having a girl that has more abs than I do.
I focus more on mass while girls tend to focus more on a low bodyfat, which is why I don't have abs showing much hahah. Anyways, the body wouldn't matter to me, I would like the fact that she trains hard to get what she wants, THAT is why I would take a girl with abs anyday.
Cool, so it's more the attitude towards it. :)
Yup exactly! :)
Like I say, I tell people that I don't date fatties. Not because they're fat but because 99.9% of them aren't confortable in their bodies and they DON'T do anything about it. I date fitness freaks because they provide me with the motivation I need every day to advance in life... ;)
That's a good point actually. People should want to be healthy and look after themselves. Although I accept for some people it really is hard and I can understand where they're coming from. But yeah, I can't say I disagree with you :)
I love muscular girls and abs but only if they are ripped not just an outline
That's fine. Any more and I would have reservations about where your at mentally. It would be like, "Oh great, one of those chicks that has a dozen little bottles in her gym bag and can count the calories in a steak just by looking at it." Major eyeroll.
Your built nice don't want get too many abs/ lose too much weight
work on doing some squats for a ass. You could even gain 20 lbs
and look very sexy. You got know guys like tits n ass. There should
be exercises to give you more firmer bigger looking titties
Actually since I've been working out I have only lost about 4 kg, which isn't excessive and my personal trainer told me I would stay at this weight, so there's no problem there, and yeah I know guys like that I don't really have a problem there either
Thanks for comment :)
YES!!!
Haha what?
Are you flexing? That's plenty of abs for me. Getting more fit than that would lower my attraction I'm pretty sure.
Little bit :P Hm okay, thanks for opinion :)!
Sure they do, if though they don't know it yet. xD You have a healthy, fit body. Not too much abs, not flabby.. I think that's the goal; to be fit while remain feminine.
Looks good on the pictures, but something like that www.acefitness.org/.../Abs_Main.jpg would be too much.
Also, I just have to ask: are you German? Because I saw a comment of you ending with "or?" when you meant "are they?", in all these years I spent on the internet, I have never seen anyone but Germans use that common expression of the German language.
Hm yeah I agree, I wouldn't go that much, not even close, I still wanna look like a woman hah!
Actually no, not German. My oma
My oma is Dutch which holland is next to Germany but I've never been exposed to it, and no one has ever said that so it's interesting you did ***
The Dutch language is very similar to German though ^^
I am just noticing small details very often.
Indeed but I've never even heard the language so that's odd but kinda cool hah
Surely not more... Staying fit is amazing... but for a girl its slightly different
You want to stay fit but also soft and gentle. A thin layer of fat over that is much better... Guys like grabbing stuff
Hahah yea fair enough. I still have fat that's for sure, so I guess that's good then...
I personally think you look great
I think at this point, you could benefit from doing more squats rather then focusing on mid section... for a women thats like chest and arms for guys lol
So yea more squats, get those legs bigger and booty fatter
BUt really thats just literally nitpicking for the sake of body composition... you dont need it, but you seem advanced level, so yea go for it ;)
Looks fine to me. I personally think that once it starts looking "rock"like then it is "too far." But I'd imagine if that only the most extreme really go that far and are most likely taking steroids.
Based on preferences from guy to guy. Some like the girl that takes care of herself. Some like the girl that just doesn't care. It's what guys see through eye, not really what they think. When it's too much, in my opinion, that's when I start to question. You're fine though.
Yeah I've figured it's definitely preference :) and thans
Thanks*
Too much definition isn't really my thing with abs on a girl. But picture shown is pretty amazing, Little definition is good, and the picture she has nice curves, legs, just looks athletic, the kind of build I'm really attracted to! :D
Awesome thank you :)
Why is that you?
Lol yeah tis
Oh, wow, nice work! :), can tell you take care of yourself! :)
Thanks :) I do my best to !
Same here! :D
Good for you to then!!! :)
Hahahaha, thanks!
It's always great when a girl has muscle. However, there is a limit. A girl can look bad if she has too much muscle.
I agree yeah. What about the pictures, would you like any more or?
Same girl haha but fair enough (:
No that's okay.
What's okay? haha what I don't know nevermind
Ah, the list/order of comments messed me up. The abs on those two pictures look very different.
It's the lighting I think. They were taken within a couple of days between each other. Anyway, thanks for opinion :)
Good abs indeed, need to appreciate for your optimum fitness levels, however more than this would be a turn off for sure
Hm, fair enough. But thanks, I do try to stay healthy
Honestly have to say that is about perfect for abs. Want to get more ripped abs then babe by all mean DO WORK! I love girls with abs.
Thanks, good to keep in mind :)
you look great, but don't go too far as it will be too much and will be intimating to other guys.
Yeah I'm not like a muscle fanatic, I'd just like to be toned and definition :)
That's actually kinda hot, even if I prefer a tiny bit more "roundness", not much though.
Problem is she'd make me feel insecure about not having abs.
Yea someone mention that could be a problem, thanks for honesty :)
Most guys won't have a problem with abs like that on a girl.
They're fine, but not necessary. Good for you to be so healthy!
Thank you, glad to know you wouldn't mind :)
why when yousay abs you ALWAYS post skinny girls with abs and not thick ones?
It's because it's me lol, not that I have anything against thick girls at all sooo...
Have to say I hate too much muscle on girls! be healthy but don't go over the top!
The pictures aren't over the top though or?
Fair enough also :)
That's just perfect. Gotta say that's an amazing hot body.
Thaaaanks ^_^
i think it's sexy at that level, I have seen some girls go overboard with it though!
I have to, but thanks!
Haha no! I have seen girls go overboard, sorry.**
Yeah sorry, I didn't make that very clear! Yeah that's me at the mo :P
Girls who lift are very sexy to me, as long as it's not freakishly skinny with muscle or it looks like they're taking steroids.
Haha yeah, understandable
You look great!! But fitness is important to me so im looking for a girl that is the same so keep working hard! :)
I would love to have abs, I only have a flat stomach though, but I'm going to get some one of these days with much hard work.
Flat stomach is still great. Even that is an achievement :) but good luck !
I'll need it I'm a foodie, thanks
It all depends on a guys taste. Personally I like girls that are fit and healthy. Not overly skinny and not chisled like you would see a body builder. Women need to maintain softer features that help draw their natural body lines.
So you would be okay with a girl with a body such as in the pictures?
Most definitely. The pictures show that you are in control of your body but not overly obsessive of it. Perfect balance of soft and firm.
Cool thanks! :)
Honestly, despite the fact I put a low emphasis on physical appears, I have to admit I find abs (muscle tone in general) to be really physically unappealing.
That's fair enough, I've learnt it's personal preference
nice body, that is the most abs I would want. nothing more
Thanks :) what about leg muscle?
Fine will do, thanks :) Yeah, too much muscle even on a guy isn't great..
You mean you don't like this? fc00.deviantart.net/.../..._stonepiler-d478dwu.jpg
=)
That's correct, it's a bit much for my liking :)
I would never stop you if you wanted to go further, but I REALLY like where you're at. Its a good stopping point.
I don't think I'd want to go much further with my stomach, but I'd like more definition in my legs that's for sure :)
well keep up the good work! You have a great body
Thanks! :)
Oh my god... women with abs are just beasts! Ngh! Love it when a woman has such a sexy display of power and health! >w<
Glad to hear :)
No we like women that take care of their bodies... plus then I have a work out buddy instead of some lady whos too lazy too work out.. so flex ur abs ;) im game
Haha yeah it'd be awesome to have a workout buddy ;P
I am not really into muscular women it feels a bit masculine but that's just me
Yeah that's fair enough, matter of opinion :)
I like women with abs, but I also want them to have muscle too.
Fair enough (:
I don't dislike them, but I could not care less about a girl having them. They do nothing for me.
Fairo (: thmx for comment
i don't like to see the muscles. but i like a girl who exercises to support those female curves
Fair enough
well , for me it's not big deal, becaus women can get prignent and lose there abs , so it will be exosting for her to have here abs back, its wast of time, so i think she must be natural
Don't go more than that please if you love yourself.
Why? I'm not going to lol but why do you say that?
because that is the max right now. Go easy on the abs. and work on abductors and ass, (What a lot of the fitness trainer guys/girls say at 24hr fitness)
Okay, fair enough. Thanks :)
You have an amazing body, just the type I would go for :)
Cool beans :)
A little more than that I wouldn't mind. But either way it looks great. It's definitely something guys like. Great job keeping yourself in shape by the way.
Thank you! Appreciate your comment :)
Np. ... And now I wanna work out... Hey, now I got a question for you. How do you keep the drive to work out? I do it for a few weeks every other day or so, then just crap out on it entirely lol. Kinda tired of being a twig.
I have pictures of what I want to look at, or something in mind, and that keeps me pretty motivated. Also I'm lack self confidence and this is a way that keeps me going. Once I got into a routine of working out, I found that it relieved stress and I always finished feeling great. So I guess that's what keeps me going. It's the feel good part of it. Maybe even find a work out buddy?
Hmm... Alright, thanks for the advice. Maybe I should keep a schedule to do it and maybe I'll end up in a routine... I'll keep this in mind. Thanks again.
Schedule and sticking to it is important. But don't be disheartened if you have a slack week or whatever. I have those a lot!
Slack week? Like a week you just don't wanna do anything? ... If that's the case, I get a lot of those too lol... Always stops me.
Yeah exactly that, it's natural "don't stress just do your best"
Alright. Thanks again.
Personally I hate them.
I'm sure lots of guys like them though.
ah well
I like a toned athletic girl. Its not a necessity tho
Yea, that's a fair call :)
Abs are great but as long as the girl is fit and trying, that is great for me. Keep up the great work.
Cheers :)
That's about as far as I would go personally. I can only get my upper two abs to show.
as long as they find your face moderately attractive any straight guy will have sex with you regardless of any other factors
Yeah, that's the limit.
Girl you should gain weight! You got big titts, wide hips, thick thighs and you're SKINNY.
You'll be HOT HOT HOT when you gain more weight.
I don't need to gain weight... I'm just weirdly proportioned, but if I gain more weight I'll be fat...
I wouldn't feel good about myself if I had more fat
I wouldn't really call the top pic abs rather just have a girl with a flat tummy than abs
Oh well, what about the bottom one?
flexing lol
Doesn't that count haha
it doesn't I'm about the same as you and I don't count myself as having abs. When you're ripped that's abs ( my friend is a fitness model ripped to shreds ) now that's abs in my opinion
I wasn't really saying I have abs in the question, I was asking if I got abs would a guy mind, the pictures were there to see what that would be classed as, some people consider it abs some don't
I already answered that question in my initial comment
I didn't say you didn't hahah
I thought maybe you missed it seeing you referred back to your opening question
Bruh ik I'm late but I don't see abs so if you have the same 2 pictures pls show me. Thank you
I think that looks nice. It is still feminine.
Thanks :)
Damn I want abs like that?
You can if you put your mind to it :)
thats actually perfect
Thanks ^_^
is that you?
Uh, yeah it is hahah
DAAAAMNN GURL
I think she looks great!
Thanks :)
no abs like that are super cute
I don't like abs on girls at all.
I'd definitely still smash tho.
Can't be too bad then haha
Well those abs aren't that visible so they're not bad, but bigger, more shredded abs look gross. Plus, that girl in the pic has nice legs and looks like she has a nice ass, which is a definite plus 👍
Thank you then ;P
That's you, anonymous? Impressive ;) yeah if your abs got any bigger, I'd feed you till they go away a bit, but as of now your body is near perfect 👌
Haha it sure is, lol well I do enjoy a good burger, so I don't think I'll get much better then this...
I'll have to take you up on that burger date sometime then ;p
Hah cheeky
What workouts do you do?
It varies, I have different days that I focus on legs, core, arms, back, chest etc. I don't really have set workouts, I just go to the gym and do whatever looks like it helps in that bracket haha :) I'm following a lot of workout accounts on instagram to! That helps :)
Yeah that girl has really sexy abs!
Cool.. Thanks :)
You look amazing. What I don't like is extremes.
Thank you, I wouldn't go much more then this
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