Do you think that I am too fat to wear a bikini?

Question

I've always wanted to try wearing a bikini but I'm too afraid to since all my friends are super skinny since I live in Asia and they're all short and cute weighing around 50kg or less. I'm also Asian, but on the other hand I'm 166cm (approx 5 ft 4") tall which makes me a lot taller than most of them and I weigh 70kg (approx 154 pounds). 

I'm 17 so I don't have anything like stretch marks. The only thing I'm worried about is that I might be too flabby to wear a bikini. My measurements are 39-30-41 and my dress size wavers between a UK 12 and 14. Am I too fat to wear a bikini?

biracialQT · Accepted Answer

I've been dealing with a very similar problem for a while and what I found out is; that if you let your fear of what others think of you, get in the way of fun stuff and things you want to do, you'll only limit yourself more and more. I know it might be hard and you might feel insecure at first, but I challenge you to wear a bikini, you're definitely not too fat to wear a bikini, its all in your head, wear the bikini and when you do, make sure the bikini looks better than theirs and I promise you, you'll forget about your insecurities :)

staciebee · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on how confident you are. If you're the type of person who doesn't like to show too much because you're worried about what people will think, you might want to go with a one piece. If it doesn't really bother you, go with the bikini. I've seen women of all sizes wearing bikinis, so it's not like there's a law about it. Just wear whatever you feel comfortable in.

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

You're not fat. Nowhere near fat. Just remember this:

Sexualchrist · Accepted Answer

Yeah, just stick with a one piece for now, until you can lose some weight.

Don't forget since you're taller, if you do lose weight, you'll look better than them in your bikini.

Wear a one piece and exercise like crazy at the beach every single day without failure, cut back on portion sizes for meals and before you know it, you'll be a banging hot babe.

Grosayfious255 · Accepted Answer

If you want to, go for it. I personally don't think that you should do it just because of your friends or social standards.

Anonymous · Answer

You could try a lacy one piece like this.

2cool4boys · Answer

girl! fuck what other people say. wear what you want to wear. accept who you are no matter what size you are.

skullly · Answer

for a 2 piece yes. wear a 1 piece bathing suit.  but the tummy you have looks like it can easily be flattened out.

nemer26 · Answer

Go for it! I don't have the confidence for it, but I see plenty of girls wearing them and think I might be OK. I'm sure you'll look fine!

Ihav2fart · Answer

There is no such thing as too fat to wear a bikini.

523206720 · Answer

Your not too fat too wear a bikini. Too fat would be like 220+ pounds.

Arandomguy · Answer

I'd say no, your not to fat but can't be sure without a pic

Anonymous · Answer

No one is ever too fat to wear a bikini. The only women who shouldn't wear bikinis are ones who have ugly faces.

Anonymous · Answer

No cause I'm 14 and 159.2 lbs. but it's in my butt and thighs. I wear a 9 though. Cause I'm 5'0. You'll be beautiful.

jerkboy89 · Answer

I think you look sexy. You should definitely wear a bikini.

WhaChaChaKing · Answer

You look good! I wish my body looked more like yours.

spencer97 · Answer

Its not letting me open the URL put a actual link please

Anonymous · Answer

You are fine. Worse comes to worse just bring some clothes to cover up if you feel uncomfortable.

JackKerouac77 · Answer

Nah girl, do you. Fuck society

andreasnow · Answer

wear it, you look great!

sovetskii13 · Answer

You look great. No worries about wearing bikinis.

chuckfraser · Answer

go for it... u'll look gr8

miserybusiness · Answer

No, you have a really noice bikini bod!

HelloThereFolks · Answer

If you got booty no one's gonna care

Cowboy6666 · Answer

U r good... Don't worry

goretcki · Answer

Just go ahead and wear one.

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

Wear it. With pride.

Backtoback · Answer

Based on the pictures you are fine, go for it!

Anonymous · Answer

Bikini? It's winter

gapminder · Answer

A pic would help

Tripzz · Answer

No picture?

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