Girls, how to hide your period from your BF?

[Anonymous]

I know this is a silly question, but at the moment I'm freaking out just a little. I haven't seen my boyfriend in person for two or three weeks now but today he's coming over to watch movies with me. And of course, I started my period this morning.
My boyfriend is a handsy guy, especially when it comes to my butt. And so, I think it would be a major turn off or just kind of "ewww" response if he felt my pad through my shorts. I'm going to put a tampon in, but since it's my day 1 and usually pretty heavy, I need some extra tips on how to not bleed through, but not crinkle and have pad lines.

Thanks Girlies!

[bizzlesbae06]

You shouldn't hide that from your boyfriend. If he's not shallow he'd understand. Every time I get my period I tell my boyfriend bc he's pretty handsy too. He likes to grab my ass and I'm always afraid of him feeling my pad too but I tell him about it and he understands. Your boyfriend should understand too. If you still don't want to tell him just put on a pad wear thick pants and when he tries to touch push him away but be cute with it so he thinks you're teasing. I've done this before I was comfortable telling someone I'm in a relationship about my period.

[selfishstars]

I've never felt the need to hide my period from my boyfriend. If he started to get "handsy", I would just tell him, "I'm on my period by the way". I'm comfortable fooling around or having sex on my period, so what happens next just depends on whether or not he's comfortable with it.

I've never had a guy act grossed out by the fact that I was on me period. If one did, I'd see him as really immature.

[Bandgal]

I would just tell him. And if you guys really want to have sex, just ask him if he's comfortable with it. You'd need a towel and it'd be kinda messy but you'd also have relief from cramps and I feel like with how hormonal and horny girls could get in their periods, the sex would feel amazing. Plus there's added lube lol

[Anonymous]

Just tell him you have your period and use what you normally use (so just use your pads if you want). Guys know girls get periods and I have never had a guy say "ewwww", they have usually been happy to still have sex if I was up for it - if I have bad cramps I can't as I am too sore but light cramps actually go away with sex.

[LightsOff]

Just tell him you're on your period, it's not something you should have to hide. And if he is grossed out by it, sucks to be him. Nothing you can do about it.

[9mfeo]

He probably won't be able to feel it. Honestly, if he freaks out, he's not a nice person. It's not like you can control that.

[AubreyBandz]

If he's your boyfriend he should understand what girls go through. If he try to touch you just say im not in the mood im on my period he should understand. You guys can still kiss.

[whattothink]

Um, who cares that you are on your period? If he is upset/grossed out then he is too immature to be in a relationship.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Um just tell him that your on your period. I'm sure he'll understand

[Anonymous]

Don't have sex that week?

[Anonymous]

just use tampons.