How to find meaning to life?

[Anonymous]

How do you find meaning or purpose to your life?

After you have "made it" I guess...

Done college, got a good job, have a house, have a car, paying bills...

Now what?

I feel like this is it now... I just wait 40 years until retirement?

I do travel, have fun with friends, do hobbies and sometimes take classes... but it just feels like a distraction from life and my career (Which I don't really like, but it pays well)... I would like to have a girlfriend, but it just hasn't happened... I did fall in love to have my heart broken...

Why am I like this? How can I fix things?

[Anonymous]

Have you heard of maslow's hierarchy of needs?
Read about it.
You should really get a girlfriend though, that's a major part of life :) you'll enjoy it. Don't try to hard though.

[Asker]

Wow that looks interesting, I am going to check it out...

I would like to have a girlfriend to love, but I've tried my whole life and have had no luck.

[Opinion Owner]

It is interesting, it'll maybe help you with where you are with life :)
I'm sure love will find you sometime. Don't look, let it find you, just be yourself:)

[Opinion Owner]

Also any form of giving back to society that you indulge in?

[Asker]

Not really... I wish I had a girlfriend... sigh

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for mho
Tbh though you shouldn't try to look for one it will happen when it does

[abundantlyrich]

You must have a passion that you would like to fulfil or help others with.

[bcromartie]

What are you doing for others? Your life should be measured by who you serve not what you hoard.