I am shrinking slowly. What can I can about my height?

[elmariachi05]

At childhood, I was lucky for growth. I was 1.74 at the age 14, tall for that age. I was 8-10 taller than my one age older sister. Somehow, things went bad. My growth stopped at that age, but my sister continued to grow taller after that. She became 1.77, so 3 cm taller than me. Sometimes I am ashamed of this situation. After the age 30, I also began to shrink 4cm due to posture disorder. Now I am 1.70. When I get together with my sister, she becomes way taller than me with high-heels. I have a great complex with her. Also my wife is 1.67. How can I cope with? When she wears high-heel (12 cm) shoes she becomes taller than me (7-8 cm). How can I cope with it?

[andreasderjuengere]

Just grow a few centimeters on the mental side, and physically it will then not longer matter. Our height actually never is a problem, but the way we look at it. I am not tall either. Plus: I know numerous short men of whom I have a very high opinion.

[madgoat]

Ask her to wear flat shoes, and you wear a bit of heel.
Aside from that you need to work on your emotional yourself.