Had to share this?

[Anonymous]

so I took my wife to New York for two weeks and she gained about 20 pounds and man did she eat and it all went to her belly. Lol anyone got any tips to gently help her lose the tummy now that we are back and she isn’t able to indulge on Italian food and bakery treats all day lol

[SnakeBoop]

Erm hang on.
One, you did not have to share and I hope she's consented to photo posting AND she's the one who wants to lose weight?
Otherwise, way to wave the controlling red flag much?

[Asker]

Huh huh

[globetrotter22]

@jabloink38383 is that really you and her?

@SnakeBoop I agree on the photo part. But about the “controlling red flag” comment. Excuse me but I wouldn’t expect a girlfriend/wife to stay attracted to me if I let my body go to sh*t when she keeps herself in shape.

There really is a huge double standard about how guys are not allowed to judge women on things they can control (body weight) vs how women often judge men on things that are least difficult if not impossible to control (being wealthy or being tall).

It’s not fair at all for you or anybody to expect him to somehow to just ignore this.

[SnakeBoop]

@globetrotter22 that itself isn't my problem. What IS my problem is that even though she has supposedly said she has no interest, he's still trying to drag her along to follow HIS demands. THAT is controlling. THAT is a massive red flag.

[SnakeBoop]

But to be fair, you jumped straight to incel terroritory with your "double standard" part, so you lose some of seriousness.

[Asker]

Quite a world we live in now huh

[SnakeBoop]

With a dude trying to fat shame his girlfriend on the Internet? A shite one.

[Asker]

You must be from london

[SnakeBoop]

nope.

[JoyGirl]

You could got to the gym together. :)

[Asker]

I’ve tried she doesn’t want to work out

[JoyGirl]

Take Salsa classes together.

[Asker]

Omg she loves dancing and it does make her sweat

[JoyGirl]

Good!
It will also help lose some weight. :)

[JoyGirl]

Make sure she eats right, too.

[Asker]

Great tip actually and yes I’m trying to curb her away from the carbs

[JoyGirl]

:) :) :)

[Asker]

That she would do and I actually never thought of it and it would totally help her to lose those NY lbs

[JoyGirl]

Thank you for the MHO. 💜

[Asker]

Thanks for the tip I’m excited to sweat that belly off of her on the dance floor !

[JoyGirl]

😂😂😂

[Asker]

I talked to her about it yesterday and suggested the dance classes she was happy about that but isn’t excited about going to sleep without a belly full of chick fila or in n out. I stopped her eating at 4 pm and man was her belly noisy and gurgly last night it woke me up a few times lol

[JoyGirl]

Oooof…lol

[Asker]

Yea belly doesn’t seem happpy about this either

[Asker]

Hey we tried dancing today and she hated it because her belly was bouncing around too much and she told me she really doesn’t want to lose weight and is happy with her body and doesn’t want to get skinny what should I do

[JoyGirl]

Accept her as she is. You can’t force her.

[Asker]

Have u ever had someone gain weight like this

[Iron_Man]

Get back on eating real clean and healthy walk five days a week or more

[Asker]

She doesn’t want to work out

[Iron_Man]

She has to

[Asker]

Lol she isn’t interested

[Iron_Man]

You’ve got to be kidding me

[Asker]

No I’m not she’s enjoying me buying her new clothes for the growing tummy also

[Iron_Man]

Ugh 😠

[Asker]

Haha it’s fine

[globetrotter22]

20lbs in how much time?

[Asker]

About a month

[globetrotter22]

Thats crazy. Do you take good care of yourself? If she doesn’t like working out maybe you could set an example. Tell her you really want to improve your body. That could be a real strong hint to her

[Anonymous]

More sex.

[Asker]

Lol that’s happening but there’s a little bit of a pillow in the way lol

[flirtatiousgirl]

Hah what?

[Asker]

I know right