What do I wear to look nice without trying too hard?

[Kkstarzz96]

I'm on a rapid weight loss plan, and a year ago, I had professional photos taken, and thats what ultimately pushed me to take initiative that my body was so fat, that even if I wore something really nice, I'd be insecure. I scheduled another photoshoot the same time this year, in the fall, and I don't know how much weight I would have lost, but I'd probably be under 200 lbs to the maximum 160 lbs if it went the way it was going now, and for my height it's not a bad thing at all to be that much, it looks great, but I don't know because my arms are still the same, and my thighs are still cottage cheese like and I feel like I'll hide my body cause I just have jiggle. I know I can lift weights and I have been, but I know I'm battling years of not having definition to suddenly striving for it. Sigh, I just wish i could see myself where I liked everything. So do you have any thoughts on a theme I could pick thats not too in your face but nice?

[DaySpring]

1st of all you are beautiful and everyday you bring more of that natural beauty to the surface. You are on the right track. You are an inspiration to every person who reads this. You really are, even already.

2nd don't let the difficulty of the matter take away your power. It is hard but you are harder. Take the fucking soul of this goal. This goal doesn't know you. You're about tear this goal to pieces. You're going to have your goal shaking in the corner crying because you killing it so hard.

3rd Be patient. At some point in this journey you're going to realize it isn't about the goal. You're building something that you might not even know about yet.

4th You wear what you want. You say this to anybody or any thought in your head telling you you are not enough. Tell them this: I know I'm not my ideal self, I know I'm broken, I know I'm insecure, but I'm here. I'm here every fucking day trying to get better and giving everything I've got. I'm here. Look into the eyes of your demons and say "I'm coming motherfucker. I'm coming." They thought they had you out for the count. You got back up and you're about to choke out all your demons now girl. Haha. I'm getting pumped up now.

At any rate I hope something I've said helps.

[Wise4myage]

Wear whatever makes you feel the most comfortable, and don't be desperate.

[Ninania]

A well-fitting long sleeve A-line dress would be my go-to.

[Kkstarzz96]

Everytime a big girl wants sleeves on a bridal gown show they tell her no cause it makes your arms look bigger and I somewhat agree

[Ninania]

To each their own. I prefer something covering my arms, that's why I suggest it.

[Kkstarzz96]

I've never personally seen a woman who has toned arms they're either skinny like mine were once upon a time or the underarm fat is present, but never actually defined. I'd like to have strong arms and this time I actually can see myself working on it compared to just wishing I would. Thanks though

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sweats and a tee

[dolemite89]

a table cloth?