Girls, How do you stay motivated to be in shape and look good when you when you know men only treat you better because they want to have sex with you?

[FilmGuy93]

I have recently encountered a rather silly problem where I've been getting discouraged about losing weight because of all the objectifying remarks I get from women.

I like looking good and I like being in shape, but damn... It's just so depressing to know how many women will only interact with me because they want to bang me. In a weird way, I kind of prefer not being noticed by women (although definitely not enough to not lose weight). I know that women have a similar problem with the way men treat them when they slim down and I was wondering if y'all had any advice on how to not get super depressed about this.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Lol, fuck men, I'm motivated to be strong and in shape for myself. Idgaf about what men think - I care about sending rock climbing routes and doing well in martial arts.

[FilmGuy93]

Alright, so your advice is to just ignore it and do my thing. That sounds like as good a plan as any

[EllaNella]

I care about myself. And I enjoy looking in the mirror and liking what i see. Shitty people will treat you like shit however you look, their approach just changes

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, that's kind of how I feel too. I like the feeling I get from looking good. On one side, I enjoy the attention, but on the other, I know that I'm really just doing it for myself.

[TrueConfection]

What? 😂
Aside from health reasons, THAT is my motivation! Bring on the female remarks and lusty men! 😂😂😂

[FilmGuy93]

Lol I hear you! It sounds so silly even saying it but I was trying to be more reflective of how I feel about this kind of thing