I have a naturally wide rib cage and bad genetics (narrow hips and broad shoulders) How to achieve a curvy hourglass?

[Anonymous]

I always feel like shit going online seeing people blessed with the genes so they can at least achieve a curvy hourglass figure through exercise. I litterally cannot change my bones no matter how much I exercise despite being pretty thin. I don’t even have the assets to fall back on I’m a c cup with a small butt. It’s not even about men I just find my body aesthetically unproportional and displeasing to my own eye. Is there anything I can do beside plastic surgery? I feel so unfeminine.

[ethanallen]

First, I empathize. I have an intersex disorder (an extra x chromosome) than makes me an XXY male instead of XY male. It makes my body look goofy among other problems. Despite this, I have had success with women (long term relationships) that were very good looking. They were "10" model women but I was very happy to be with them. So, relax and accept yourself. Focus on your strengths and let men see what is unique and special about you. The truth is that when someone is in love with you, they see you as beautiful.

Second, if you are between 18 and 24 and you grew up in the US, you have had trips to the pediatrician. If so, maybe he diagnosed an intersex condition. However, many people on the site are from other countries where access to medical care is not as common. If you have never been to a doctor, i recommend a visit and possibly getting a karyotype. This will tell whether there is a genetic problem. Intersex conditions can have complications that go beyond mere appearance.

[KatherineJ]

I know it’s hard when you compare yourself to others. But I’m confident that you can become comfortable in the body you have. And don’t worry about the stick people.

[Smashingdoozy]

You can't. Not without cosmetic surgery. Embrace your natural body

[rohitbiruli008]

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