Girls, has your libido changed in the past? What were the factors?

[Anonymous]

Like exercising, taking/stopping the pill, being in a trusted relationship, or being single and carefree, or living with no stress, did you find that any of this impacted your libido?

[D_Bone_Steak]

This is like the best question I've ran into in a long time. I don't have any answers... but I'm just curious as fuck on this one.

Here is what I will say on this... I was with this chick and she got the BC implant... it didn't happen right away, but damn after about 3 or so months she turned into a bitch. I felt like I was walking on eggshells around her. I'm talking you simply can't do anything right around her.

Anyways... she got it taken out and she went back to how she used to be. So I'm just really curious how the BC might of been changing the hormones and also the stuff with age, but I'll hold off on telling stories about dealing with that.

[Asker]

Yeah BC pills and implants or even a IUD I believe can definitely impact libido and mood which is the main reason why I wouldn't take them anymore… in fact even 10 years after stopping the pill I believe my hormones are still not right this is crazy and gynecologists are clueless … it’s good that you saw the difference and made the connection many women don’t even realize themselves or take years to connect the dots… and it’s crazy how women change with age also as you’re saying 😲 thanks for the reply and good luck 😊

[MiamiMadness]

Libido is all about hormones so a lot of factors tbh

[Apple1996]

I've noticed with age its gotten a lot higher and I've never taken birth control long term so can't speak on that. I've been pregnant 4 times tho and pregnancy does my libido crazy high usually to the point where I could just fuck all day long if it was possible.

[Emiliamazing]

It went down two years ago. Work/home stress, change in hormone level, I stopped taking the pill four years ago.

[CubaPirate]

Sounds like you and hubby need a weekend away 😉

[Emiliamazing]

@CubaPirate
All is much better now. Through medical assistance and some advice I received on this site last year, things are much better. I stay here and help others :-)

[Emiliamazing]

@CubaPirate And we had a weekend together, this past weekend. We definitely are taking more time for each other these days.

[CubaPirate]

👍👍👍

[dustybiker]

It was high to begin with but really amped up at thirty, as my doctor warned. It can go right through menopause and into the 80’s if lucky. Healthy and happy relationships help.

[D_Bone_Steak]

So you got more horny with age?

[dustybiker]

@D_Bone_Steak Yes. Like wood in the morning for men. It shows health in older woman.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Oh damn... my chick is my age and she's pushing me for sex more than I feel like it lately. Like she's trying to make a manditory once-a-day rule... and I have to admit... it sucks. She just lays around watching those romance movies while I'm watching dry ass nature or history stuff and then she wants to fuck all the damn time. I want to figure out if she's going to fucking chill out... or do I need to stop lifting weights and she'll naturally chill out. It's seriously becoming a happiness with life issue for me.

[dustybiker]

@D_Bone_Steak lol I think nature makes high drive matches and low drive matches. Sounds like you have your work cut out for you. 😁

[D_Bone_Steak]

Damn... I want to just play playstation.

[dustybiker]

@D_Bone_Steak Life… such as it is. lol

[pizzalovershouse]

Any of those can efect are hormones even not getting good sleep or eating unhealthy

[krin_m]

I think those factors affect men equally!